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Category: Birth Locations

Japan (Other Than Hiroshima and Nagoya)

Posted on July 15, 2025July 21, 2025 by nickssquire12

In June of 2025, I took a cruise all around Japan (with a stop in Jeju, South Korea which you can read about by clicking here).

Full disclosure--that part of my around the world trip was such a blur I don't remember where some of the following photos were taken, but I am going to try my best to fill in the gaps. I am also going to make separate posts about my visit to Hiroshima, as well as the Toyota Museum in Nagoya because I have a lot to say about both places.

But with that out of the way...enjoy my virtual tour of Japan.

The historian with a cow statue

The only part of Europe I have been to is Denmark so far (well, and the Lisbon, Portugal International Airport but that doesn't count!) Anyways, something I have heard about Europe is "Once you see a cathedral in Europe, you feel like you have seen them all."

I'm going to be honest-- I feel the same way about Shinto and Buddhist shrines in Japan. I don't remember where any of these shrines were with the exception of one in Tokyo, which I will point out below. I will provide some photos here and then give you some more information about the Shinto and Buddhist religions and shrines in Japan in a bit.

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Pond Full of Iris
Plants growing on the roof of a shrine
Buddhist Shrine in Tokyo

(The last photo directly above is of a Buddhist Shrine in Tokyo, I believe all the other photos are from Shinto Shrines scattered throughout Japan).

I had heard of Shinto before going to Japan, but didn't know much about it. Our tour guides throughout our time in Japan filled in a few of the gaps, and I did a bit more research to give you a better understanding of this polytheistic religion.

The Shinto Religion was founded in Japan in ancient times, at least 1,300 years ago--kind of like how we associate the Olympiad with Ancient Greece and certain Egyptian gods with Ancient Egypt. With Shinto, however, the religion is still fairly popular and widespread throughout the Japanese islands. And when I say there are Shinto shrines everywhere, I mean they are everywhere!

According to the website Jinja Honcho (linked below):

Shinto has no founder, no dogma, and no doctrine. It is a way of life, shaped by pure reverence for the myriad kami and honest gratitude for the blessings we have received.
Shinto is both the wellspring of Japanese culture, and an eternally renewed expression of that same culture.

Our tour guides told us that there are thousands of gods and spirits in the Shinto Religion. The Shinto word for spirits or gods is "Kami", and "Jinja" is the word for sacred locations around the islands. "Shinto" itself is a word that can be translated as "The Way of the Gods." 

Shinto is also an ancestral religion, and after people die, they can be worshipped as Kami by their descendants. Some families even build shrines to worship their ancestor Kami. The most important Kami in Shinto is the goddess Amaterasu, who is associated with the sun.

Shinto is explained further by Japan Guide (article linked below):

In contrast to many monotheistic religions, Shinto does not have absolutes. There is no absolute right and wrong, and nobody is perfect. Shinto is an optimistic faith, as humans are thought to be fundamentally good, and evil is believed to be caused by evil spirits. Consequently, the purpose of most Shinto rituals is to keep away evil spirits by purification, prayers and offerings to the kami.

Shinto priests can be men or women, and are allowed to marry and have families. They often live on the grounds of the various shrines scattered around the country, and are aided in various rituals (or "matsuri") by young, unmarried women called "miko". The Miko can be the daughter of the priest, and they dress in white kimono for the ceremonies they assist at.

During the Meji Period (1868-1912), Shinto was made the state religion as a way to create a sense of Japanese identity after the fall of the Shogunate and end of the Edo Period (the time of the Samurai). However, after World War II, the new Japanese government formally separated itself from the Shinto Religion.

While Shinto is still popular in the country, and there are such things as Shinto weddings, there are virtually no Shinto cemeteries because of the way death and Shinto conflict. Instead, cemeteries and death rites are usually left to Japanese Buddhist customs instead--which I will go into next.

The original form of Buddhism practiced in Japan is called Mahayana, or "Greater Vehicle" Buddhism, which essentially teaches that everyone is capable of achieving enlightenment and salvation. Over the following centuries, however, other types of Buddhism also developed in the country. During the 6th Century AD, Buddhism was brought to Japan via Korea and China. While the ruling people of Japan were immediately receptive to the new religion, the common people struggled with Buddhism at first because of the differences between it and Shinto, but eventually the two religions came to a place of complementary coexistence.

Unlike Shinto, which is one, fluid religion, Japanese Buddhism is divided into multiple different sects, founded at different periods in the country's history. Each sect has different followers, different beliefs, and teaches different ways to paths of enlightenment. And honestly--its all pretty confusing as someone who doesn't know much about Buddhism in general, and even less about Japanese culture and history.

For around a thousand years, between the 6th and 16th centuries, Buddhism also held political power in Japan, beyond the religious aspect. Things were calm for the next few centuries, but during the Meji Period, Buddhism once again came under attack as the government attempted to make Shinto the dominant religion. Long term, this didn't seem to work very well.

According to Japan Guide's website, today, two-thirds of Japanese people consider themselves to be Buddhist of some sort, but it does not strongly influence their day-to-day lives. Many Japanese people keep altars in their homes to pray to the ancestors, and as previously mentioned, funerals are usually held in the Buddhist traditions.

When I visited the Shinto and Buddhist Temples, I was amazed--first of all by how green and beautiful everything is and the fact that there are literal plants growing on the roofs of some temples! Coming from the desert where I live, I always find places that are really green and have wildflowers so pretty. One of the Shinto temples we visited even had a giant pond of all different colors of Iris growing in it (I provided a photo above). I was also struck by just how many people were at each shrine. Yes there were a lot of tourists, but there were also many native Japanese people as well. In the United States, where monotheistic religions are much more popular, you usually only see churches full at specific times (for services or masses, weddings, funerals, and other events for example). In Japan, the shrines were all full all the time! It was fascinating.

A Japanese Castle

Another thing we saw multiples of was castles. I personally saw two on our trip, and both looked exactly the same--white walls with black tiled roofing. I honestly can't remember which was which and don't know which one is in this photo (sorry!). It doesn't help that we saw them two days in a row, and it was pouring rain pretty much the entire time we had allotted to look at them.

I did a bit of research to look into why there are so many castles dotted around the islands, and it sounds a lot like why there are so many European castles (or ruins of castles) scattered around. According to Japan Guide, during the 15th and 16th centuries, there was no unified Japanese government covering all of mainland Japan like there is today. Instead, there were a bunch of small warring states, and the heads of those states built small castles on top of hills as defensive positions.

During the second half of the sixteenth century, the Japanese reunification process was completed, and more castles (albeit larger this time around) were also built all around Japan. These castles were built for military and administrative uses, and to prop up a symbol of the new government's authority in the regions they were built.

When the Feudal Age came to an end in 1868, many of the castles were destroyed. More castles were further lost during bombing raids in World War II. Today, only a dozen castles from before the Feudal Era survive, but more have been rebuilt--with concrete and other modern supplies as opposed to traditional materials.

I believe, after doing a bit more reading, that the two castles we visited were Kochi Castle, and Himeji Castle. I believe the Himeji Castle is the one I have pictured here in this article.

Capybara at the Himeji Zoo

(Also quick random side note, we went to the zoo while we were in Himeji because capybaras are my favorite animal and they have capybaras there! Unfortunately the zoo itself was really sad and depressing so if you're an animal lover like me, you probably don't want to go there. All of the enclosures were super tiny, dirty, and had little to no enrichment for the animals in them. I saw an armadillo doing the "I'm stressed and running in circles" dance at one point too. It was so sad.

Kiki's Bakery

We also found a Studio Ghibli inspired village somewhere, but again I can't figure out where it was. I tried to look it up online but there are so many different Studio Ghibli areas in Japan I have no idea where we were!

For those who don't know, Studio Ghibli is a Japanese animation studio who makes wildly popular films like Howl's Moving Castle, Ponyo, Princess Mononoke, and Spirited Away.

Ladies Burger

Also, again I don't remember where this was but we found a hamburger place that sold a "Ladies Burger" so I decided to pose next to it, haha.

Black Beach

And once again, I have no idea which beach this was. I tried to look up "Black Sandy Beach" in Japan but apparently there are multiple beaches in Japan that have black sand! All I remember about that day is that we were trying to see Mount Fuji in the distance, but it was way too cloudy out so we couldn't see anything, and instead walked right back to our car and promptly went back to our cruise ship!

Ryugado Cave
The Historian in the Cave
English Pamphlet for the Cave

Ryugado Cave is in Kochi, Japan, and it was pretty cool to walk through! Honestly though, I wouldn't remember the name of the cave if I hadn't snagged a pamphlet, which has clearly been sort-of translated into English from the original Japanese. I posted a photo of it here for your enjoyment!

The other photos were taken inside the cave itself by my fiancé with his night vision camera, which was really useful because most of the cave is so dark you can't see anything inside it.

I would say if you happen to be near Kochi, check out the cave, but ONLY IF you are ready to climb eight flights of stairs and, well, there's no nice way to say this but, the cave is Fatphobic. By that I mean, there are multiple tiny passageways that you have to twist and contort yourself through. The gaps are easily passed by stereotypically sized Japanese people, but Americans? You really don't want to get stuck down there and it was so busy during our trip there wasn't really a way to turn around and go back either.

Earlier this year I went to Kartchner Caverns in my native Arizona for the second time with my family and my fiancé, so that experience was still fresh in our minds the day we went caving in Japan.

If you visit Kartchner Caverns or other cave systems that are operated by state parks, or even have stringent scientific studies happening in them, you'll learn that it is expressly forbidden to touch anything. Cave systems are incredibly delicate, and even something as small as a human touching a wall can result in bacterial growth or a whole host of other issues.

In Ryugado Caves, however? You have no choice but to touch the walls, especially in the tight areas like I mentioned above. Luckily there are no rules against it either though. So, if you're looking for a caving experience where you are allowed to get up close and personal and touch whatever you want, this is the caving experience for you. Just again be careful because of how many stairs there are. The final climb up out of the cave is called "The Tiring Hill" and boy are they not kidding!

And now for a bit of history about the cave.

According to the cave's website, the cave system was formed over 175 million years ago and is around four kilometers long--one kilometer of which is open to the public. One sentence on the website really stood out to me--"The cave even has Wifi!" I can tell you that, of all the things I liked about Japan, one of the best is that there is free Wifi in almost all public spaces, which is really nice when your American cellphone doesn't work in foreign countries!

Also, there is a museum about the caves on sight, but we were not given enough time to go through it unfortunately--which is a shame because the pictures of it look really interesting.

To get to the entrance to the cave, visitors also have to pass a range of different vendor shops and souvenir stands. The most prominent store (that our guide was sure to tell us about beforehand) is a man who makes handmade kitchen knives. They were excellent quality but we didn't buy any because a) they were really expensive and b) as passengers from a cruise ship, we knew they would get confiscated by security when we went to take them back on board the ship. That's also why we didn't buy any shurikans that were also for sale at the caves!

I also learned doing research that Ryugado means "Dragon River Cave" and that the system is one of Japan's largest limestone cave systems. Ryugado was designated a Natural Monument of Japan way back in 1934. The colorful lights and other music we saw while traversing the cave was only added in 2019, my guess as a way to draw in more visitors. One nice thing about the cave system is that they have maps all throughout the route that shows you how far you've traveled and how much further till you get to the end. This is really helpful when you're already exhausted from multiple days in a row of walking miles and miles like we had been on our trip!

Sumo Wrestlers in Action

Our first night in Tokyo, we were able to go to the Asakusa Sumo Club to witness a real sumo wrestling fight (from retired actual sumo wrestlers, pictured here).

First I will talk about my time at the Sumo Club, and then give some background about Sumo Wrestling in General.

Our Photo from the Sumo Club

The night we saw sumo wrestling, we were all bone tired. We had been wandering around Tokyo all day long, going from one stop to another, and for the past three hours had been wasting time waiting for our sumo show to start. It was also pouring rain, my phone was dead, and it was our last day with the cruise so we were all getting ready to disembark the next morning (and immediately head to Tokyo Disney, which I'll talk about next!)

Anyways, right before we went into the Sumo Club, a few of us wandered down the street and tried Japanese McDonald's, which was actually pretty good. And I'm glad we did, because I'm not exactly the most open to eating random food I can't identify.

So we get into the sumo club, all of us dripping wet and cold, and we find out our seats were wooden benches with wood slabs for a tabletop in front of us. The seating is extremely uncomfortable but makes sense for the vibe the club is going with. Then we get our food--which is a traditional Japanese platter called Chanko" which included fried chicken, vegetables, and some soup cooked over a little fire they make right in front of each guest. I didn't like most of it but other people in my group thought it was okay. The part I didn't like was that each guest got a free drink--alcohol or non-alcoholic, but each guest had to order separately by scanning a QR code on their phones. As I mentioned, my phone was dead so I was lucky I'd carried my water bottle in with me!

Then the show started. My fiancé and I were a little nervous when a white guy with blond hair who speaks perfect English came out and introduced himself as the owner (I think! I'm almost certain he was but now I'm second guessing myself). We were only a bit concerned that we had found ourselves in a tourist trap, and it was a little, but the wrestlers themselves and the woman who worked as the geisha dancer who performed before the wrestlers were all authentic.

Come to find out, the white guy had moved to Japan but was originally from Canada, and apparently he just really liked Sumo wrestling, so he opened the club as a way of bringing sumo to the world. Sounds like something I would do honestly.

Before the matches, the host gave us a short history of sumo, explained the rules, and then we met the fighters. The room was divided in half, with one side backing Roman and the other side backing Asazakura (I hope I am spelling his name right). My side backed Roman and WE WON. And by that I mean Roman won the most matches of the night between the two of them!

Afterwards, the host asked for ten volunteers from the crowd who wanted a chance to take on the sumo wrestlers. The very first volunteer challenged Roman. Now quick tangent--in sumo wrestling, as a way to bless the ring beforehand, the wrestlers will each take a handful of salt and toss it onto the ring. When our first volunteer took his handful of salt, he decided that instead of throwing it into the ring, he would instead throw it directly into Roman's eyes. 

Now, I don't know about you, but there's this thing I was taught from the time I was a child called basic human respect. And part of that aspect is that you do not throw SALT into a person's EYES. Not unless you're literally in fear for your life or something. Oh so many of us in the crowd were beyond pissed, and you could tell Roman the wrestler was too. He spent the rest of the night with his eyes burning, trying to clean them out with a rag he was using for his sweat.

Luckily he also promptly beat that volunteer's a** as he should have. Whoever that guy was, if you ever see this--I hope you never do that again because not cool my man. Not. Cool.

Nobody from my group volunteered to fight, but we all still had a lot of fun, and when it was over, each group that was part of the audience got to take a photo with the wrestlers and Geisha dancer. I posted ours above. One of my future brothers-in-law even got picked up by Roman for the photo!

Now for the history of Sumo.

The earliest records of sumo wrestling are found in written texts dating back to 712 AD, while figurines of sumo wrestlers have been dated to around the same time. In the earlier periods of sumo history, matches would be performed around the same time rice was planted, as a way of praying for a good harvest and good weather that year. Eventually, sumo became a popular sport that was performed even in front of the emperor.

Professional sumo wrestling, however, was not developed until the Edo Period, the time of the samurai. Sumo at the time was used as a way to raise money for building projects and other public works, and because of the public nature of it, the rules and regulations that still pertain to sumo today were formed. Despite its popularity, the government actually tried to ban sumo on several occasions because of the arguing and fighting that came along with it.

This was the same period that the 48 Winning Techniques were decided on. In Sumo, you can't win any which way you want. Instead, there are 48 specific moves or ways you can utilize to win a match. These 48 techniques all boil down to one of two things: either one wrestler is able to force the other out of the ring (even if its only a foot or a hand or something), or one wrestler is able to force the other to touch their hands to the ground of the ring. As soon as either happens, the round is over.

The only other way to lose is if one of the wrestlers loses their belt, or "Mawashi," which is why they are tied on so tightly. The wrestlers demonstrated to us what it looks like when one *almost* falls off for comedic effect, but apparently that is also a major rule. You flash the audience, you lose.

The biggest surprise to me, watching these matches, was how quickly they were over. I would say that of all the rounds we watched, the longest way maybe a minute long. They are extremely fast, so don't blink!

Another thing I noticed was that both wrestlers we watched at the club were retired from professional sumo wrestling, and both were (I think) in their early 30s. So apparently even though the wrestlers train for years to become good at the sport, they retire not long after!

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The morning after our day exploring Tokyo, that ended with the Sumo show, we disembarked our cruise ship and headed straight to Tokyo Disneyland Resort.

(When I say we spent thirty-seven days straight running all around the world, I'm really not exaggerating!)

Belle's Enchanted Castle
Belle and Her Horse

The previous two photos are from "Enchanted Tale of Beauty and the Beast"--a ride not currently available in either Disney California park (as of July 2025). I've never been to any other Disney parks so I'm not sure if it is available in any of them either!

(And yes it was supremely odd to hear Lumiere singing "Be Our Guest" in a French accent, in Japanese!)

Splash Mountain

One thing I noticed (and loved!) about Tokyo Disney was that none of the rides have been made "Politically Correct" like they have in California. Splash Mountain still carries all of the original Brer Rabbit characters (though again they sing in Japanese, which makes sense for the park's location but was still odd for my American ears) and Pirates of the Caribbean still features the Bridal Auction! As a child who always found red headed women particularly attractive, my favorite part of the Pirates attraction was the line, "We Wants the Redhead!" and when it was removed from Disneyland Anaheim I was crushed. My childhood was restored when I got to hear the line--in English no less!--at Tokyo Disneyland.

And seeing as Pirates was our first ride of the day, it made it even more special!

Tokyo Disney Food

We spent two days at Tokyo Disney Resort: our first day we spent at Tokyo Disneyland, and our second day at the newer park Tokyo DisneySea.

I absolutely LOVED Tokyo Disneyland, and honestly that park is the only reason I could see myself returning to Japan one day. It was everything Disneyland Anaheim was when I was a child but isn't anymore. Also, the park was clean, the staff was really nice and friendly, and there were not very many guests--even though it was a Sunday. I think the part I loved the most about the park though was the sheer number of children there.

When I visited Disneyland Anaheim in September, my fiancé and I noticed that there were about four adults for every child. Now I get it, with how much it costs to get into Disneyland now, I don't blame parents for not being able to afford it. But there was something so special about seeing all these young families and happy children everywhere. I didn't even see any kids upset or crying!

While we were at Tokyo Disneyland, we went on the following attractions: Splash Mountain (which we actually went on twice!), Haunted Mansion, Peter Pan's Flight, Snow White's Adventures, Mickey's Philharmagic, Pooh's Hunny Hunt, It's a Small World (With Groot!), Enchanted Tale of Beauty and the Beast, The Happy Ride With Baymax, Star Tours the Adventures Continue, Monsters Ince Ride and Go Seek!, Pirates of the Caribbean, and Jungle Cruise. I honestly think my favorite was It's a Small World, not just because Groot and many other Marvel characters have been incorporated, but because the ride was actually clean and well maintained. The last few times I've done the ride in California it seems kind of sad and dilapidated. Pooh's Hunny Hunt was also really fun and had a surprise that I won't spoil for anyone here! But yeah, overall I loved Tokyo Disneyland.

(Also they still have a version of Fast Passes that is much MUCH better than the stupid Genie whatever its called in the US).

Tokyo DisneySea, however, is a much different story.

The first thing you have to understand is that Japanese culture is much different from American culture, and the Japanese people really don't mind waiting in long lines.

The day we visited was a Monday and the park was beyond packed. We waited in a line for over an hour, just to go through security before we even got into the park. The line was also outside, with no covering, and in June it is HOT there. Well over 90 degrees Fahrenheit and humid as well.

(Also my fiancé had to use the bathroom while we were waiting in line. The only bathroom available was in the train station near the security lines, and there were two bathrooms for the entire area. Not separate male and female mind you, but literally two toilets for probably a thousand people, so that's...cool).

Alright, so we finally got into the park, and again it is HOT. Now, another thing to know about Japan is that their smoking/nicotine laws are very different than the US as well. Its nearly impossible to find nicotine vapes or pouches, and it is illegal to smoke cigarettes out in public, you have to use specific smoking rooms.

My fiance had a pack of cigarettes on him, but the paper map we were given by park employees once we entered DisneySea was all in Japanese (understandably) and also failed to mark where the smoking rooms in the park were. Luckily we found a very friendly park employee and she literally took a sharpie to our map and starred the general location of where the rooms were.

And of course they are on complete opposite ends of the park, and not anywhere near where the entire back half of the park is!

After my fiancé made use of the closest smoking room, we started heading to the back of the park where we had specific Fast Pass like tickets for some of the newer attractions. And remember, it is hot, and there is very little shade anywhere in this park. We also had already run out of water and couldn't find any stands to buy more...and it was only 10 AM.

We made it to the back of the park, went on the rides we had our Fast Pass tickets for, and then began to explore the rest of the park. And thank goodness we had those passes by the way, because the lines for the three rides were: one and a half hours long, two hours long, and two and a half hours long! I would not have waited that long for any of them, but again, Japanese culture is very different from American.

We spent the next few hours trying to find water, utterly failing to do so, and riding a few rides. We also walked several miles, back and forth, utterly confused at times because the Tokyo Disney app for your phone SUCKS when you have poor American phone service like my fiancé did. I couldn't use the app at all most of the time because I had no service unless I Bluetooth tethered my phone to my fiancé's, but then that would throttle both of our service, which is a whole other complaint I have about international travel that I won't bother going into any more detail!

Oh yeah, and to top it all off I was also in excruciating stomach pain the vast majority of the day because Japanese food didn't agree with my American stomach. At one point when we were waiting in line for Soaring Fantastic Flight, I was literally doubled over in pain crying. Such a fun day.

Desperate For Water

At the end of the day, we did still get on a fair amount of rides, which I will list below. We also found out after the day was over that apparently all of the restaurants have water taps inside to refill water bottles in--but seeing as most of the exterior signs that did exist were in Japanese, and that's not really a thing in American parks, my fiancé and I had no idea and instead had almost passed out from heat exhausted at one point in our search for water.

That particular episode was entertaining for some of the Japanese guests I'm sure. Here I am, a tall (by Japanese standards), gangly, sweaty American girl sitting on the literal ground across from the one water fountain we did finally find, trying to regain my strength while my fiancé wandered off to find the other smoking room on the map.

Oh yeah, another note on Japanese culture--its actually seen as rude to sit down on the ground in public places, but they also fail to put benches in most public places either. I actually got stared at on two separate occasions while in Tokyo for daring to rest my tired legs!

I also had no idea, until after the fact, that DisneySea is at least three, maybe four times the size of Tokyo Disneyland. Literally the night after we went to Disneyland, my fiancé and I commented on how excited we were that we had an entire day to sea DisneySea, and that since it was probably the same size as Disneyland, it would be a relatively easy day. Oh how wrong we were.

We actually had until six PM to explore the park before we needed to leave to get to the airport, but by around 3:30 my fiancé and I called it quits and took the train back to the hotel, and we literally sat in the lobby for a few hours and waited, regaining our strength after that trying day.

During the five hours we were in the park, we were able to get on: Toy Story Mania, Tower of Terror, Soaring Fantastic Flight, Journey to the Center of the Earth, Indiana Jones Adventure of the Crystal Skull, Anna and Elsa's Frozen Journey, Peter Pan's Neverland Adventure, and Rapunzel's Lantern Festival.

There was an entire land we didn't even get to in DisneySea, called Ariel's Grotto I believe...but again we were so exhausted we were just done.

In my personal opinion, if you're planning a trip to Tokyo Disney anytime soon just go straight to Disneyland and skip DisneySea. I know that's a bit of a controversial take, since DisneySea is all the rage right now, but my experience was so bad I feel traumatized and don't ever want to go back!

But with all that said, let me get you some historical info on Tokyo Disney as a whole.

Tokyo Disneyland opened all the way back in 1983, which really isn't all that long after DisneyWorld opened in Florida. The major difference between Disneyland Anaheim and Disneyland Tokyo you will notice immediately upon entering Tokyo Disney, is that instead of the classic open-air Main Street USA, instead Tokyo has a World Bazaar with a covered roof, evidently designed to protect the park during inclement weather.

DisneySea opened in 2001, which is really surprising to me actually! One of my future cousins-in-law, who had done some research on the parks beforehand, told me that the reason DisneySea was so much busier than regular Disneyland was because it had "recently opened and was more popular." I figured DisneySea must have opened within the last five, maybe ten years, but twenty-four years ago?! No offense to my cousin but how is that recent!? Lol.

Both of the parks were closed for several weeks following the horrible tsunami and earthquake that hit Japan in 2011, not because the parks were damaged, but because a reliable source of electricity to the parks had been cut off. DisneySea, was closed the longest of any Disney park since opening (other than Covid that is)--which is kind of a sad but interesting distinction. The Covid19 Pandemic shut the parks from February to July of 2020, but they have been reopen ever since.

Since the first park opened in 1983, over 300,000 people have worked as cast members between the two parks!

After doing a bit more digging, I think I may have found what my cousin was referring to in terms of DisneySea. Remember when I said we had special tickets to get on some of the rides quicker? Those rides had to do with the films Tangled and Frozen, as well as a new Neverland Peter Pan themed ride. All three are located together at the back of the park in a land called Fantasy Springs. That entire area was opened in June 2024--so its only been open for around a year.

That would make sense why the lines are so incredibly long for those rides, and I think another reason why the crowds were so big were also because Duffy, a character that's really only popular in the Asian parks, is celebrating his 20th anniversary this year.

So yeah, there's a bit of info about Tokyo Disney, and my experiences while there.

A few other things to note: if you plan on riding the train from the main Tokyo Disney hotel to DisneySea or the other two stations, just know you have to pay for that ticket. The monorail in California is free, but not so in Tokyo.

Also, if you happen to be visiting DisneySea soon and don't have those special fast passes, remember this when you head to Fantasy Springs; the Rapunzel ride lasts literally less than five minutes--you are probably in the boat for maybe three minutes at the most! Also, I described the Frozen ride to my cousin and she said it sounds almost identical to the Frozen ride in Florida. Then there's the Peter Pan ride, which is entirely in Japanese (which again, makes sense given that the park is in Japan), but if you don't speak Japanese don't expect to understand what is going on on that ride at all. It is also one of those newer rides where you sit in front of a variety of screens with 3D glasses on, looking at various short films. If you get motion sickness, you might want to avoid that one. But yeah, most people were waiting over two hours for each of those rides...and I really don't think it was worth it.

 

So yeah, I hope you enjoy my virtual tour around Japan. I have more content about Hiroshima and Nagoya specifically coming up, but for now, hopefully you learned a bit and enjoy my random ramblings! Until next time!

Sources:

Shinto Religion

https://www.jinjahoncho.or.jp/en/shinto/

https://www.japan-guide.com/e/e2056.html

https://www.britannica.com/event/Meiji-Restoration/Accomplishments-of-the-Meiji-Restoration

Buddhist Religion

https://www.japan-guide.com/e/e2055.html 

https://asiasociety.org/education/buddhism-japan

Castles

https://www.japan-guide.com/e/e2296.html 

https://www.japan.travel/en/ca/inspiration/discover-japans-twelve-original-castles/

Ryugado Cave

https://ryugadou.or.jp/english/

https://visitkochijapan.com/en/see-and-do/10018

Asakuso Sumo Club and Sumo Wrestling

https://asakusa-sumo.com

https://web-japan.org/kidsweb/virtual/sumo/sumo03.html

https://www.britannica.com/sports/sumo-sport

Tokyo Disney

https://d23.com/a-to-z/tokyo-disneyland/

https://d23.com/a-to-z/tokyo-disneysea/

https://www.olc.co.jp/en/company/history/history03.html

New York City, New York, USA (2025)

Posted on July 15, 2025July 15, 2025 by nickssquire12

Ah yes, my second trip to New York City.

I have nothing against the people who live there, but I will be very upfront and honest, I do not like New York City. I didn't like it the first time and I liked it even less this time around. There are too many people everywhere and, honestly, in Manhattan specifically there's not much history I'm interested in--I've definitely seen all I need to and don't plan on ever going back.

St. Patrick's Cathedral

With that said, let's start the tour!

One of our stops was St. Patrick's Cathedral, right in the middle of Manhattan. While the inside of the building is equally impressive, it still feels wrong to me to wander around and take photos and videos inside a place of worship, so you can survive with this photo of the outside instead.

According to the church's website, the cathedral was built between 1858 and 1879, funded in part by poor immigrants, as well as the wealthier citizens of the city. In 1866, the first church known as St. Patrick's in the city was destroyed by a fire, so many describe the cathedral that exists today as the second St. Patrick's church in New York City. Restoration work was undertaken on the inside and out of the building in the 1970s, to celebrate the church's 100th birthday.

If you tour the inside of the church, you will see dozens of statues, beautiful pieces of stained glass, and many other ornate decorations. One thing my group commented on (since none of us are Catholic), is we wish the stained glass had inscriptions on them to let the public know which Biblical scene is taking place in them. They do all say on them who donated the pieces though, so that's cool!

The Cathedral is also still a practicing church, with active mass times and other services taking place inside. When we visited, they had big banners inside advertising the Christian prayer app "Hallow," which my fiancé had never heard of. At first he was dismayed by the thought of a cathedral having an app of all things, but once I explained it was advertising he was...slightly less dismayed.

Brooklyn Bridge
Manhattan's skyline

The Staten Island Ferry is a free ferry service that takes tourists and locals alike from Manhattan to Staten Island and back, and while it does so it gives some pretty incredible views of Manhattan's famous skyline, the Statue of Liberty, and the Brooklyn Bridge. According to the Ferry's website, they transport around 22 million people every year, which is crazy!

I was most excited to see the Brooklyn Bridge because it meant I could take a photo to fan girl about the early 2000s film "Kate and Leopold." Sadly no one else in my group had any idea what I was talking about!

One World Trade
The Firefighters Lost on 9/11

Ground Zero at the World Trade Center is one of the saddest places you can visit, not just in New York, but anywhere in the US.

I don't know how anyone reading this doesn't know about the 9/11 Tragedy, but in case you don't, here is a brief summary.

On September 11th, 2001, four planes were hijacked and used, or were attempted to use, as a way to commit terror attacks on US Soil. Two of the planes struck One World Trade Center Tower One and Tower Two. A third plane struck the Pentagon, and a fourth was crashed in a small field in Pennsylvania by the heroic passengers on board, who made the choice to sacrifice themselves and prevent further lives being lost rather than let the plane strike whatever its intended target was. To this day, no one knows what the fourth target was.

When the planes struck in New York, first responders responded, well, immediately. Unfortunately for those at work in the towers, if you were on a floor above where the planes struck you had two options: die in the tower, or die by jumping to death outside of the building, as all the stairs and elevators were blocked by flames. For those lucky enough to be beneath where the planes struck, some were able to escape thanks to the help of brave volunteers and first responders.

Over two thousand people died that day. What most people don't know, is that another, much smaller tower in the World Trade Center complex also fell that day, after being struck and damaged by debris from the attack.

Today, the ground where Tower One and Tower Two stood are large, recessed, reflecting pools. Around the edges of the pool are the names of everyone who died, be it civilians or first responders, that day--and also those that died in the bombing that took place at the World Trade Center several years before. The day I visited in June 2025, one of the reflecting pools was undergoing maintenance and was dry, but the other pool was still fully operational.

Today, the 9/11 memorial fund also ensures that, on the birthday of anyone who died, a white rose is placed by their name on the memorial plaque, helping to keep their memory alive for generations to come.

Right across the street from the One World plaza is a fire station for FDNY. On the side of the fire house is a poster, (in the photo I took shown above), with the name and photo of every fire fighter that perished that day. While we were there, we were able to point out Pete Davidson's father amongst the dozens of other first responders who gave the ultimate sacrifice that day. Sadly, all six firefighters who served from the Brooklyn 118 died that day, but are credited with saving over 200 lives.

What most people don't realize, is that the work to identify victims of 9/11 still isn't complete. The New York City Medical Examiner's Office is still working every day to identify more than 1,000 missing people, presumed dead because of where they were last known to be alive that day.

After the attacks, family members of the victims provided over 17,000 DNA samples in an effort to help locate their missing relatives. Those samples are still being used today. In the aftermath of the tragedy, almost two million tons of debris were searched by hand to find any trace of human remains. In 2006, over 700 small bone fragments were discovered on the roof of a building across the street from Ground Zero--later identified to be from victims of one of the planes. After this discovery, 18,000 tons of excavated material was also searched, leading to over a thousand more human remains, down to the microscopic level.

All of those tiny fragments, discovered from the day of the attacks all the way up to five years later, have been catalogued and kept safe. To date, over 21,000 individual pieces of human remains have been located--there were 2,573 victims in total that day. Of those, sixty percent of the victims were identified, with forty percent (or 1,103 people) still unaccounted for as of November 2024.

The problem lies in the DNA technology as it stands today. What happened at Ground Zero is a perfect storm for destroying DNA--everything from jet fuel to diesel fuel, bacteria, mold, various chemicals, insects, heat. Think of anything that might destroy DNA cells--whatever it was, the odds are it was present during the attacks or in the aftermath.

The remains present and still unidentified have been tested over and over again as technology advances, up to fifteen times in some cases, and the work will not end until every piece has been identified and returned home to that victim's family.

Around half of those families, however? They have informed the medical office that, if their loved one is found, they don't want to know. Those families have tried to put the past to rest, and knowing a piece of their loved one has been sitting in a lab for twenty-four years now is too much to bear. The other half of the families however, are waiting for news, hoping that every day will be that day. When remains are identified and the family is notified, they have the option of having the remains transferred to the funeral home of their choice, or they can stay at the medical examiner's office, which is located within the museum complex.

I obviously didn't get to visit the medical examiner's office, but I learned about the recovery efforts a few years ago and have always wanted to find time to highlight the work the medical examiner is still doing to help the families affected by this horrific tragedy.

Carpathia's Unloading Pier

The business name Cunard Line doesn't mean as much to most people today as it did one hundred years ago.

Before the invention of airplanes, and later planes big enough to carry passengers across the world, people would have to travel by oceanliner.

The very word oceanliner has lost meaning in the modern landscape. Today, if you asked a random selection of people on the street what the difference is between an oceanliner and a cruise ship is, the response you would receive is probably first, "What's an oceanliner?" and second, "Isn't that just a cruise ship?"

(For those curious, an oceanliner is a ship built specifically for the purpose of ferrying passengers back and forth across oceans--ships like Titanic, Olympic, Queen Mary, and so on), while a cruise ship is a vessel meant specifically to take people on vacations and for pleasure. It doesn't seem like that big of a difference today but I promise it is.

Anyways! I digress--unfortunately I was not able to physically stop at Cunard's Pier 54 while in New York City (part of the famed Chelsea Piers), but we did pass it on a bus tour and our guide casually mentioned, "By the way, that's the pier that Carpathia unloaded Titanic's passengers on, and three years later that Lusitania took off from on her fatal voyage."

Other than my fiancé and I, nobody else in our group seemed phased by the casualness of our guide's comments. Meanwhile I'm sitting in the back of the bus, openly gaping and scrambling to get this photo!

Returning visitors to this site, and those who know me in person, know how much I am personally invested in the story of Titanic. I am also sure everyone knows the Titanic story by now as well, but once again, for those who don't, I'll give a quick summary.

In April of 1912, The White Star Line, one of the largest oceanliner companies in the world, launched their latest, most fabulous, and technically largest ship in the world, RMS Titanic. RMS stands for Royal Mail Ship--and one of Titanic's primary duties was to carry bags and bags of mail from the UK to the US and back.

Also happening at the time was a massive coal strike. Oceanliners of the day relied on coal in order to power their steam engines. With not enough coal to go around, and Titanic underbooked for her maiden voyage, White Star Line made the decision to move what coal they did have from other ships, onto the Titanic in order to power her first trip across the sea. At the same time, White Star Line "upgraded" numerous passengers set to sail on those other vessels that had just been stripped of their coal supplies.

On the night of April 14th, 1912, Titanic was steaming across an ice cold Atlantic ocean. Her captain, J Edward Smith, had been warned numerous times of ice flows in the area, but elected to ignore the warnings and continued to speed on--at least one other ship in the area, the Californian, had elected to shut down her engines and wait for daylight out of an abundance of caution.

At around 11 PM, disaster struck. In the blackness of night, Titanic's two lookouts spotted an iceberg "Dead Ahead." They immediately rang down to the bridge to warn of the danger. The crew (which did not include Captain Smith, as he had already gone to bed for the night), made the decision to try to steer the ship out of the way of the iceberg.

(Ironically, studies have now proven that had the Titanic hit the iceberg head on, she would have sustained severe structural damage, but she would not have sunk. To watch a video on that analysis and to support one of my favorite YouTube channels click here.)

Within minutes of the lookout spotting the iceberg, Titanic would graze the berg on her starboard side, ripping open five of her watertight compartments. Had only four been breached, she also might not have sunk. Another quick fact! Most people think the iceberg ripped open one giant gash that allowed water to enter the ship--when in actuality it was a series of punctures ranging from small to large. Can you tell I'm a Titanic nerd?

On the night of the 14th, Titanic had around 2,200 souls on board (the approximate number can never be known for certain). Three hours after the iceberg struck the ship, Titanic would snap in half from the sheer weight of the water rushing into the bow section, and within minutes would sink under the waves, just after 2 AM on the 15th. The Californian, and one other mystery ship, were nearby--but neither had wireless operators awake and able to receive Titanic's distress signals. The closest ship who did hear the distress signals was Cunard Line's Carpathia, captained by Arthur Rostron. 

Captain Rostron had made full steam ahead, or as close to it as he could manage while keeping his own crew and passengers safe through the dangerous ice flows, and arrived at the scene on the morning of the 15th. He had believed that when he arrived, Titanic would still be afloat but heavily damaged, and that he would be assisting passengers move to his ship to continue the trip to New York.

Instead, what he found was very different. As I mentioned, Titanic was long gone. Not only that, but over 1,500 of her passengers and crew had also perished. Captain Rostron's Carpathia arrived in the midst of Titanic's lifeboats, with 705 survivors freezing inside them.

Carpathia had been heading in the opposite direction, taking her passengers and cargo to Italy, but after rescuing the Titanic survivors, they changed course and headed to New York as quickly as possible. Carpathia was not equipped to hold so many people, but the passengers and crew did everything possible to help the survivors--including sharing food, clothes, and in some cases even giving up their own cabins.

On April 18th, Carpathia steamed into New York, arriving at the very pier I photographed above, delivering all of the Titanic survivors to the place they had headed out for only a few days before, but their lives had changed forever. 40,000 people waited at the pier to meet them, everyone from EMS workers to journalists, to anxious family members praying that their loved ones would walk down the gangplank.

Just over three years later, in May 1915, the Cunard liner Lusitania--noted for its considerable speed and luxury, was leaving from the same pier in New York that Carpathia had delivered Titanic's survivors in April 1912.

By May 1915, World War I was in full swing in Europe, and the German government was operating U-Boats in the water around the United Kingdom. The Lusitania was leaving New York to head for Ireland, knowing full well that they were heading into dangerous waters. The passengers, some of whom were some of society's most wealthy, and some of whom were immigrants returning to Europe because of the war, traveled knowing full well of the danger. There were 1,959 souls on board.

Unfortunately for those on board Lusitania, their captain, William Thomas Turner, elected to ignore the British Admiralty's warnings of the danger. He was told to be especially careful in the water around Ireland and also to travel across the ocean in a zigzag pattern--which would slow them down but also make it harder for the U-Boats to torpedo them. Apparently Captain Turner decided he knew better than the Admiralty and did neither of the recommendations.

Everything was going fine until May 7th. On that morning, the Lusitania was within sight of the Irish coast when disaster struck. A torpedo hit the Lusitania, and twenty minutes later she sunk beneath the waves, taking 1,198 souls with her.

Two disasters, separated by three years and costing the lives of around 3,400 people, connected by a simple pier in New York City. All of that hit me hard as I looked at the rusty metal sign--and then a few seconds later, it was out of sight as we continued to drive on to our next stop.

While doing research for this section of the blog, I found an article all about the "Curse of Pier 54" and how, while Lusitania and Titanic were the most well known disasters linked to the pier, they were not the only ones. Evidently Lusitania's sister ship Mauretania stuck the pier on two separate occasions, in 1907 and 1925. Then in 1932, a fire broke out causing devastating results:

"More than 700 firemen became involved in fighting the flames, battling for hours until it became clear that the US$2-million structure was doomed. More than US$100,000 worth of cargo turned to ash, but there was a higher cost to bear. Not all attending firemen survived, dozens were injured and nearby buildings were destroyed. As the sun set that day, Pier 54’s flaring wreckage collapsed into the Hudson River, having claimed further souls."

(From "Pier 54, Cunard's Cursed New York Base" article linked below)

The pier's building was reconstructed following the fire, opening in July 1933. In 1991, with the collapse of the oceanliner industry, the building was leveled--leaving a blank concrete slate behind. Then in 2015, what was left of the pier was obliterated to make way for an art installation. Today, all that remains is the rusty steel sign I was able to photograph from my tour bus.

My Book of Mormon playbook

Okay let's switch to a lighter topic, shall we?

I don't consider myself a "Theatre Kid" by any means, but there are definitely a few musicals that I have always wanted to see. Earlier this year, I got to see "Jersey Boys" at the Phoenix Theatre in Arizona, which was AMAZING, and while in New York I got to see "Book of Mormon" at the Eugene O'Neill Theatre.

For those who don't know, "Book of Mormon" is a satirical take on the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints (better known as "Mormons" by non-church members). I am not LDS myself, but growing up a majority of my friends and parts of my extended family were/are, and now a lot of my future family-in-law are also practicing members of the church. I knew going into it that the play "Book of Mormon" is largely seen as offensive to members of the church, but many of my non-member friends who had seen it told me its amazing and that I had to see it one day.

Then I looked up the opening number for the musical, which was performed at the Tony awards after "Book of Mormon" debuted on Broadway (and can be viewed by clicking here). It is SO SPOT ON and hilarious, so I was immediately hooked.

Now that I have seen the entire musical, I am even more stoked. I genuinely loved the entire show from start to finish. I went with my fiancé, his brothers, and his grandma, and they were--let's say less enthused by parts of the show, but I think they still liked it for the most part. They didn't outright say they hated it anyway.

To summarize the basic plot, for those who haven't seen anything about the show is pretty simple. Two missionaries for the church, Elder Price and Elder Cunningham, are called to serve in a war torn village in Uganda. Elder Price feels betrayed by this because he had prayed time and again and thought he would be sent to his favorite place in the world--Orlando, Florida. His companion, Elder Cunningham, is a bit of an idiot and social outcast, who has never actually read the Book of Mormon himself and therefore doesn't know how to proselytize properly.

I don't want to give away too much, but let's just say the musical number "Spooky Mormon Hell Dream" is absolutely hilarious and my fiancé and his brothers all agreed the song "Turn it Off" is spot on to how they were raised in the church.

If you're a Pagan heathen like me, or are just interested in seeing a musical that pokes fun while still staying (mostly) accurate to the LDS doctrine, I highly recommend watching "Book of Mormon"!

PS, when I looked up the musical online to get a bit more information, I found out the theatre I watched it in was actually where "Book of Mormon" first debuted in 2011! The musical received nine Tony awards and has made more than $1 Billion since its debut.

According to Encyclopedia Britannica, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints themselves had an interesting response to the popularity of the show. Rather than protesting or denouncing the musical, instead the church bought ad space in the official playbook and had tag lines printed on advertisements that said things like "The book is always better" or "You've seen the play, now read the book."

I mean, that's one way to do it I guess, haha!

Spotted in New York

So yeah, that about sums up my trip to New York City. I took this Fight Club sewer grate photo after having dinner in Little Italy because I thought it was funny!

As I said, I've never been the biggest fan of New York, and I'll probably never go back, but I'm glad I got to experience "Book of Mormon" on Broadway and that I was able to do a deep dive into Pier 54. It wasn't all bad!

I hope you enjoyed my random ramblings on random New York topics. There's still more to come from my trip around the world, so keep checking back. I've still got to tell you all about my experiences in Denmark and Japan!

Thank you New York, and Goodnight!

Sources:

St. Patrick's Cathedral

https://saintpatrickscathedral.org/history-heritage

https://saintpatrickscathedral.org/historical-timeline

Staten Island Ferry

https://siferry.com/about/

9/11 Memorial and Museum

https://www.911memorial.org

https://allthatsinteresting.com/scott-davidson

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/nyc-medical-examiner-still-identifying-september-11-victims-remains-60-minutes-transcript/

Cunard Pier Sources

https://americanhistory.si.edu/

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Titanic

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Lusitania-British-ship

https://www.worldofcruising.co.uk/editors-corner/pier-54-cunard-new-york-history

"Book of Mormon" Source

https://bookofmormonbroadway.com

https://www.britannica.com/topic/The-Book-of-Mormon

Sydney, Australia

Posted on July 14, 2025 by nickssquire12
I Climbed It Bridge Climb Sign

We were only in Sydney for three days at the end of May 2025, but in that time we packed in a lot of stuff, so let's jump right in.

Bridge Climb
What we looked like from the Ground
Climbing the Bridge
Top of the Bridge

First Up--the Sydney Harbour Bridge Climb. If you couldn't tell by the photos, this tourist attraction allows visitors to climb the famous Sydney Harbour Bridge (the one next to the Opera House in photos). We did the extended climb, which takes you all the way up to the top of the bridge, then you walk across it and go back down. As you can see from my photos, you are put into all sorts of safety equipment and harnesses for the climb, and at the end they let you keep your baseball hat as a free souvenir.

Taking your own photos is prohibited, and you have to turn in your phone, watch, and anything else in your pockets to leave in a safety locker. To be fair, it really would be dangerous if you dropped something from that high up on an unsuspecting public below!

(They do give you one free printed photo at the end of the entire group you climbed with, but it costs extra to buy the other photos--and Bridgeclimb Sydney as a company has the right to collect any money made from the posting of their copyrighted photos! So if you're famous and you do the climb, maybe don't post the photos if you plan on collecting any revenue from your posts!).

Also a few more things to note--we climbed at the end of May, which was one of the last days of Autumn in Australia and it was still HOT at times in the sun. I can't imagine doing the climb in all that gear during the summer months! One other thing, make sure to stretch your calves as best you can beforehand! The climb includes multiple staircases at steep inclines, so my calves and lower legs hurt so badly I could hardly walk the next few days. Every step I took felt like I was tearing my muscles, and my future sister-in-law and my future cousin-in-law said they both felt the same way!

Now for some more information about Bridgeclimb itself. According to their website, the attraction first opened in 1998, and since then people from 140 countries have climbed the bridge, over 4 million people in total so far!

The website also says they've staged over 5,000 proposals and THIRTY weddings. Y'all, can you image getting married on a bridge way up in the sky? Having been up there myself I will say unless you're at the very top there's not much room--and I also wonder if the bride and groom got to wear the clothes they wanted or if they also had to wear the jumpsuit the rest of us did. Bridgeclimb also claims one climber has reached the summit 133 times, and the oldest person to climb was over 100 years old, holy cow!

After doing a bit of research about the bridge itself, I learned that the Harbour Bridge is the largest steel arch bridge in the world. The bridge itself took over eight years to build, opening in 1932. In October of 2004, an Olympic torch for that years' games were taken all the way to the top of the bridge.

I personally thought the Bridge Climb experience was really fun, but my fiancé is terrified of heights and so if you look at his photos he looks bug eyed, poor guy! He still did the climb as a way of trying to overcome his fear of heights, and I hope it helped a little, but if you are ever in Sydney and want to do something adventurous I highly recommend the climb!

The Rocks Discovery Museum

The Rocks Discovery Museum is a small, free admission museum very near the Sydney Bridge Climb experience. The museum is called The Rocks because that is what the area of Sydney is called, "The Rocks." And its true, if you walk around that part of town, the ground is very uneven and rocky, built into the side of a hill that leads down to the water in the Harbour.

We didn't spend too much time at the museum, but it was still interesting to look at the artifacts from early Sydney history from 1788 and even earlier, dating back thousands of years to Australia's aboriginal population in the area, the Gadigal People.

Featherdale Sydney Wildlife Park
Feeding Kangaroo
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With Byron the Koala

Featherdale Sydney Wildlife Park is actually in a geographical area known as "Blacktown" according to our wonderful tour guide that we had that day, Simon! (I highly doubt he will ever see this post, but if he does, congrats Simon you were by far our best tour guide we had in all the places we went around the world!).

Anyways...we learned that the part of town is called "Blacktown" because...well...historically the aboriginal people in the area were all forced to live there by the white settlers, and nobody ever bothered to change the name once the town was integrated. Yikes. No I'm not kidding (at least according to Simon that's the story anyway!).

As for Featherdale itself, the park was really fun! Its a petting zoo but is fun for all ages, and we saw so many different animals there I lost track. If you are in the Sydney area and want to see all the animals you associate with Australia (the cute and fuzzy kind, not the venomous kind anyway!) this is the place to visit. We even got to feed various Kangaroos, as you can see from my photos, including an albino one!

Simon apparently takes tourists to the park all the time, and all the staff seemed to know him. At one point, Simon was showing us how to pat a wombat on the butt--explaining they can bite if you touch them to close to their heads. After demonstrating, he rounded a corner with the rest of our group, while I decided to give the wombat a pat. I promptly got reprimanded by staff for doing so...oops!

Another attraction at the park is getting your photo taken with a koala bear. It costs extra but was really fun to do as well! (My fiancé doesn't like his photos being posted online so you'll have to excuse me covering up his face, lol). The koala we got to take photos with was named Byron and he was a pretty chill guy.

According to Featherdale's website, their park is home to 260 different species of animals and first opened in 1972. They also have an awesome gift shop! (And my fiancé said the coffee was really good and pretty cheap too!).

Queen Victoria Building

The Queen Victoria Building is, of all things, a mall located right in the heart of Sydney. First opened in 1898, the building was originally created to replace the original Sydney Markets. The name was inspired by the fact that Queen Victoria was celebrating her Diamond Jubilee around the time the building opened.

When I visited, my first reaction was, "Wow, I can't afford anything in this place!" The QVB, as its known by locals, is not just any shopping mall--the vast majority of the shops are high end designer brands or, at the very least, places out of my price range. There were a few cafes inside, and a hobby store with some pretty cool model sets, but I mostly window shopped and browsed while trying not to breathe wrong and break something on accident.

But that's not the end of the story! As we went down further and further, we realized that the basement of the QVB connects to a regular shopping mall called "Westfield." It was very odd at first to go from one area that was all high end fancy stuff, to suddenly being in a mall just like any other around the world (we ate at a McDonald's in the food court for example).

Lieutenant Grieve Monument

Something I noticed about Sydney was just how many random monuments were placed all over. I only got photos of a few while we drove around, but I figured I might as well include them here. Above is a monument to a Lieutenant killed during the Battle of Paardeberg during the South African Boer War in 1900.

Alderman Nolan Monument

This monument was dedicated to a man who served as Alderman of Sydney for several years.

Mrs. Macquarie's Chair

(You can tell I still had my sunburn from French Polynesia in this photo, yikes!)

Here I am sitting on a famous Sydney Landmark called "Mrs. Macquarie's Chair." The sandstone block was carved by inmates in 1810, in order for the governor's wife (Mrs. Macquarie) to have a place to sit to look at the Harbour. How sweet...I guess? I don't think there has ever been a more stereotypical Australian sentence typed before!

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My man exploring

For lunch, we stopped at a place called The Icebergs, which is apparently a social club and also a restaurant off Bondi Beach. The club itself is apparently one of the most famous in Australia, and according to Simon, the only way to get into the club is to go swimming in one of the pools that has literally icebergs in it, brr! No thanks! The club was founded in 1929 and continues to operate to this day.

I had never heard of Bondi Beach before we arrived, but apparently the beach itself is really famous, and there's also a TV show called Bondi Rescue that my future-mother-in-law loves! One of my future brother-in-law's made sure to snap a photo of the lifeguards to send home to his mom!

I must say, the beach at Bondi was really pretty and the water is very clear. It wasn't quite as bright blue as the tropical water was in French Polynesia (which is where we had been only a few days before), but the water was much prettier than any strip of the Pacific Ocean I have personally seen in the United States. So, if you're a beach person and happen to be in Sydney, definitely check out Bondi.

Vivid Sydney
Vivid 2

One of our nights in Sydney, we took a Harbour Dinner Cruise around the Sydney Harbour. The food was...not very good, I was seasick the whole time, and the live music was horrible! We actually got off the boat on the first stop available, a half hour sooner than the stop we were supposed to get off! But anyways, while we were there, the Vivid Sydney light show was going on.

Apparently Vivid is an annual show that happens in Sydney where they light up some of the iconic buildings around the Harbour. 2025 was the fifteenth year for Vivid, a celebration put on by the New South Wales' Tourism industry. The 2025 theme for Vivid was "Dream"--I didn't get to look out and see any of it myself because of how sick I was on the boat, but the rest of my group that did go outside said it was pretty cool!

Sources:

Sydney Harbour Bridge (and Climb):

https://www.bridgeclimb.com/about-us

https://www.bridgeclimb.com/About-Us/BridgeClimb-s-Story

https://www.sydney.com/destinations/sydney/sydney-city/sydney-harbour/sydney-harbour-bridge

The Rocks Discovery Museum:

https://rocksdiscoverymuseum.com/about-the-museum

https://www.therocks.com/our-story

Featherdale Sydney Wildlife Park:

https://www.featherdale.com.au/about-us/

Queen Victoria Building:

https://www.qvb.com.au

https://www.qvb.com.au/centre-info/history-of-qvb

Random Monuments We Saw:

https://monumentaustralia.org.au/themes/people/military/display/23701-lieutenant-gideon-grieve

https://www.sydneyaldermen.com.au/alderman/patrick-nolan/

https://www.sydney.com/destinations/sydney/sydney-city/city-centre/attractions/mrs-macquaries-chair-sydney

Bondi Beach and the Iceberg Club:

https://icebergs.com.au/icebergs-club/

https://www.sydney.com/destinations/sydney/sydney-east/bondi

Vivid Sydney:

https://www.vividsydney.com

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Seoul, South Korea

Posted on July 14, 2025July 14, 2025 by nickssquire12

(My fiancé doesn't like having his photo posted anywhere online, so you get to enjoy various photos from my trip around the world with his face covered, haha!) Here is a photo of my family-in-law that I traveled around the world with standing in the courtyard of Gyeongbokgung Palace in Seoul. Our tour guide suggested we post with our hands and fingers twisted in the Korean way they make a heart. Clearly us Americans were not very well versed in this particular pose!

Outside of the Palace

For our tour of Seoul, we found ourselves on a big tour bus with probably twenty other people--and our group by itself was ten, so it was a pretty big group! Our tour guide was a very excited woman named Chloe, who was originally from a smaller village in South Korea but she told us she had moved to Seoul a few years before. Her English was pretty good, and so our tour of Seoul was much more insightful than the tour we would have the next day around Jeju, which you can read about by clicking here.

The Changing of the Guard
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One of our stops in Seoul was visiting the Royal Palace, just in time to see the Changing of the Guard ceremony.

Today, South Korea has no royal family and so Gyeongbokgung Palace is a historical and tourism site, not a still-functioning home for heads of state. I noticed while we were watching the ceremony that the announcer (who repeated the same message in Korean, English, Japanese, and I believe a form of Chinese as well), noted that the "Guards" in the ceremony were actually actors, and not members of the military or actual trained guards. It makes sense that they are actors and not guards because there is no royal family to protect these days, but I thought it was an interesting thing to note all the same.

Different Types of Guards

I was lucky because I was able to snag the last tourism pamphlet in English that they had available that day! Inside I found these absolutely adorable drawings of the different types of guards, along with their functions. Please don't ask me to try to pronounce any of them!

The ceremony itself was really interesting to witness, but I have to admit, the effect was sort-of ruined by the fact that the palace is now smack in the middle of the hustle and bustle of modern Seoul, so there are skyscrapers all around that can be seen outside the palace walls, as well as electronic billboards and other signs of modern life.

Besides the changing of the guard ceremony, visitors can also walk around the other buildings on the site, most of which are modern recreations of what was once on the site (at least according to our guide). There are not many signs in English, or other non-Asian languages, so if you plan on visiting and don't speak or read Korean, I highly recommend having someone there who can interpret for you.

This is information about the palace I found after doing some online research:

Originally built in 1395 to house the Joseon Dynasty, the palace was destroyed in a Japanese invasion in 1592. The palace was left in ruins for 270 years, only being rebuilt in 1867. During the renovation and rebuilding, several new buildings were added around the complex. In 1895, the royal Empress Myeongseong was assassinated on the palace grounds. After the assassination, the royal family ceased to use the palace grounds as a place to live (presumably for safety reasons), but there are four other palaces in Korea the family was able to use throughout history.

Gyeongbokgung Palace is remembered today as being the place where the emperor created the Korean written alphabet and began distributing it to the people.

In 1910, a peace treaty between Korea and Japan was settled--giving Japan quite a bit more power over Korea than the Korean people would like. As a consequence, the royal palace began to be destroyed to make room for the new government buildings.

Beginning in the 1990s, the South Korean government began to once again restore the palace, allowing visitors to tour the grounds and see the guard changing ceremony like I was able to do.

 

Jogyesa Temple

Another place we visited while in Seoul was the Jogyesa Temple. Jogyesa is a Buddhist Temple that has existed in Korea for many decades. According to the pamphlet I snagged while there, the temple was originally built in 1910 and then moved to its current location in 1937--although the temple did not receive its current name until 1954. The temple's previous names were influenced by the Japanese language and culture, and so the Korean people changed the name to Jogyesa as a way of removing as much evidence of the Japanese occupation as possible.

With a baby Buddha

When we visited the temple in June of 2025, the temple was decorated with all different colored paper lanterns. According to our guide, the different colored lanterns had been purchased by Buddhist people living in the area, who had done so as a way of celebrating the Buddha's birthday, at the end of May. Here I am standing next to a statue of the Buddha as a child which was on the temple grounds.

I did some more research online to be able to tell you more, and this is what I discovered.

The originally temple actually dates as far back as the late 14th century, but the temple was destroyed in a fire. The version of the temple that stands today was rebuilt in 1910 and then moved in 1937, as the pamphlet I got while there explained.

Jogyesa Temple is one of the main sites of Korean Buddhism. Today, it is the head temple for the Jogye order of Buddhist monks--Jogye Buddhism is also the largest denomination of Korean Buddhism. On the temple grounds are two trees that are around five hundred years old, and a ten-story Pagoda that was constructed in 2009. There is even a museum and various conference halls on the grounds as well. The Jogyesa Temple is a strangely spiritual example of how something so important can span the centuries of time as well as represent a religion so deeply ingrained in the people's mindset.

Namsangol Hanok Village

Our last stop of the day on our tour of Seoul was a place called Namsangol Hanok Village. According to the pamphlet I grabbed while there, Hanok Village was traditionally a summer vacation area for people living in Korea during the Joseon Dynasty. As the city of Seoul grew up, Hanok was swallowed by the surrounding city. In 1998, however, officials from the Seoul government chose five houses from Hanok to move and rebuild in a new area, creating Namsangol Hanok Village as an area for tourists and native Koreans alike to learn about their history.

Besides being able to tour the houses, we also learned that people can have traditional Korean weddings on the grounds at Hanok. Our guide told us this was an option that people could do, and sure enough when we rounded a corner we saw a couple in traditional attire in the midst of their big day. (I felt bad that we walked in on them but hopefully they knew ahead of time that the park would not be closed to the public during their wedding!).

Traditional Korean Wedding Clothes

(Photo Courtesy of Brides.com--no I did not take photos of the couple during their wedding!)

Namsangol Hanok

Walking around the village was interesting to get to see the traditional Korean way of life, but I will add that there were no signs explaining what any of the houses were in English, and our tour guide essentially dropped us off and said, "wander around and meet back at the bus in 20 minutes!" so our group had a hard time figuring out what the different houses represented or who had once lived there. Looking through the pamphlet I picked up, it says the houses are as follows:

House 1 belonged to a carpenter, House 2 belonged to a general, House 3 was the Min Family Home, House 4 belonged to the father of an empress, and House 5 belonged to the empress's uncle. While that information is really cool--none of the houses were labeled either that I can recall so I have no way of telling you which was which.

I did some more research online in order to fill in the gaps a bit more. Apparently in 1994, before the village was even re-built, a time capsule was buried on what are now the village grounds. The capsule is supposed to be buried for four hundred years and should be opened in 2394! The reason for this is because it was buried for the 600th anniversary of Seoul being (South) Korea's capital, and will be opened on the 1000th anniversary!

The five houses chosen to stand in the village today all once belonged to high ranking officials or aristocrats, and all were originally built in different neighborhoods. Four of the five houses were rebuilt by completely recycling the original materials, but one of the houses was too old and decayed so newer materials had to be used (although the website doesn't say which house is newer!).

Apparently there is a lot more to do in Namsangol Hanok other than just walk around, but because it was the last stop on our tour and we didn't have much time, we didn't get to experience anything else. According to the website Visit Korea:

Some of the unique programs and activities to participate in include wearing hanbok, folding hanji (traditional Korean paper), writing in Korean, traditional tea ceremony, traditional etiquette school, and herbal medicine experience. There are also taekwondo demonstrations and other various performances held around the village. Visitors can also try traditional games such as yunnori (traditional board game), or understand more about the area through a guided tour.

The original Hanok Village was known as Cheonghak-dong, or "The Place Where the Gods Live" because of how beautiful the surrounding scenery was. In an effort to try to recreate this beauty, there is a garden with traditional plants in it in the new village today.

Tour Bus

We also visited a traditional Ginseng museum and store, as well as a museum about traditional Korean culture, but we had so little time at either I didn't get any photos (nor do I remember the name of the museum!). Here are some other photos we took while traveling around Seoul though.

(Above is a photo of our tour bus advertising that it takes people to the DMZ--luckily our tour didn't go there!)

Some of Seoul's Overhead Wiring
A Light Pole in Seoul

I've never been to Mexico, but my brother has told me some "horror" stories about the way wiring and other infrastructure is done in Ensenada and Tijuana. As an American, I was just as stunned to see some of the things that are normal and part of every day life in other parts of the world--like the piles of different wires all tied together in knots up above your head or the fact that the massive bolts that are supposed to be holding up light poles were just hammered off to the side of the grounding plate in Seoul.

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Another thing I noticed while we drove around Seoul was that there are certain companies that either do not exist at all, or are in much smaller quantities in the US, all over South Korea and other parts of the world. In Seoul, we saw a Kinko's (pictured above) and a Kodak Express. In Australia, South Korea, and Japan, 7/11 stores are EVERYWHERE. And they're really nice too!

So, what did I learn in Seoul? Well, I learned that trying to visit a foreign country with a language barrier is really tough, but we still had fun and got to see some interesting stuff. I hope you enjoyed this virtual tour of Seoul made by an American who will quickly admit I do not know nearly enough about Korean history!

Sources:

Royal Palace Information:

https://royal.cha.go.kr/ENG/contents/E101010000.do

https://english.visitkorea.or.kr/svc/contents/contentsView.do?vcontsId=87740

Jogyesa Temple Information:

https://english.visitkorea.or.kr/svc/whereToGo/locIntrdn/rgnContentsView.do?vcontsId=111552

https://eng.templestay.com

Namsangol Hanok Village Information:

https://english.visitkorea.or.kr/svc/whereToGo/locIntrdn/rgnContentsView.do?vcontsId=112249

https://www.koreatodo.com/namsangol-hanok-village

Jeju Island, South Korea

Posted on July 10, 2025July 11, 2025 by nickssquire12
Jeju Stone Park

In June of 2025, I was given the opportunity to visit two cities in South Korea, Seoul and Jeju Island. This post will be about Jeju with another about Seoul coming soon!

 

Stone Statue

On the day we visited Jeju, our tour guide unfortunately spoke pretty much ZERO English, and no one in our group spoke any Korean, so it was a bit of a rough day.

(For those wondering, my fiancé's grandmother had very specifically booked a private tour with an English speaking guide, so she was very upset to say the least).

Our guide spoke such little English, that my future Uncle-in-Law decided to dub the man "Mystery," and after a little while, I think the man realized he was supposed to answer anytime someone looked in his direction and said the word "Mystery"!

Anyways, with that cleared up let me tell you about our day on Jeju--and a little about Jeju itself.

My future grandmother-in-law and cousin-in-law

According to Encyclopedia Britannica, Jeju Island is classed as a special autonomous province within South Korea itself. I had no idea because again, we had no way of figuring out any information about the island's history while we were there. None of us had any real cell phone service and had done little research beforehand!

(In my defense, Jeju was a port on a cruise we were taking at the time and I didn't realize that was where we were stopping until it was too late to do any studying for the day).

As for the island's ancient history, it was once its own independent kingdom--with that period of its history ending in 938 AD. For the next thousand years, the island was used as a place to send political exiles and for grazing horses, odd combination I know. Between 1946 and the early 1950s, various political factions used the island as a meeting point to plan ways to oppose the idea of splitting the Korean Peninsula in two--a plan that was eventually put into place, forming North and South Korea like the world knows today.

Though official death counts are hard to come by, it is estimated the South Korean government may have killed as many as 25,000 people on the island during the political unrest.

Today, the island's main sources of income are tourism, fishing, and oranges or tangerines. While we were there, we saw oranges and tangerines everywhere! Apparently the island is actually known for the fruits, so much so that tourists can buy all sorts of products featuring them. My future grandmother-in-law and future cousin-in-law got matching tangerine hats, while I got a capybara plushie that I named Jeju as a reminder of where he came from (the stuffie is featured in the above image!).

The other reason the island is semi-famous to the western world is because of their special female divers, called haenyeo (“sea women”). I had actually heard of the divers before we visited the island, and so it was a special treat to be able to see them while on the island.

Female Divers on Jeju

The female divers on Jeju only dive around ninety days a year, but during those days they can be in the water for up to seven hours at a time, slowly gathering abalone and other precious shellfish that are native to the area. Some of the divers are well over eighty years old, and they all dive without the use of supplemental oxygen. The practice is not only useful to the island's economy, but also allows the women to practice their cultural traditions and keep them alive for future generations. Not only do they continue to dive into old age, but they also dive all throughout their pregnancies as well! Genetic testing in recent years have even shown that the population of Jeju has been so shaped by diving that it is even showing up in their genetic code. That particularly fascinating article can be read here.

Its a little hard to see in the photo, but the divers are the ladies in orange!

Village in the Stone Park
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Jeju Stone Park Pamphlet

Our other stop while on the island was a place called Jeju Stone Park. We could tell that the place had some sort of cultural significance to the Korean people, but again, had no way of figuring out what ourselves while we were there.

The park itself was actually pretty sizeable, and included several walking paths as well as a village, a museum, and a reflecting pool that tourists can take photos in.

I found the park's website and apparently the park itself was created as a way to showcase to visitors the art and architecture of the island that Jeju is known for, namely their various stone statues. I also snagged a pamphlet about the park while we were there, and while the English translation is grammatically correct, it still did not provide much more information about the park than I already made note of.

One of the Beaches

If you ever decide to visit Jeju yourself, I highly recommend either going with someone who speaks fluent Korean, or finding a tour guide who speaks whatever your language may be. Of course, sometimes that is what you think you have done and things don't turn out that way, but definitely at least try to plan it that way.

Jeju was a very beautiful place to visit, but it was hot and humid the day we visited as well, so dress appropriately, research the weather beforehand, and pack plenty of water!

 

Sources:

Jeju Stone Park Website

Jeju Island Britannica Page

Jeju Island's Female Divers

16) Wojtek the Syrian Brown Bear

Courtesy of Wikipedia
A Facebook Meme

16: Wojtek

Syrian Brown Bear who Helped the Polish Troops in World War II

Born: c.1942, Syria

Died: 2 December 1963, Edinburgh, Scotland, United Kingdom

Wojtek is a shortened form of the Polish name Wojciech, which means “Joyful Warrior.” According to Expats Poland, “Wojtek” is pronounced in English as “Voy-Tek.”

 

Among other things, Wojtek was apparently a great lover of boxing, cigarettes, and beer. I think that’s the most World War II-era sentence I’ve ever written in relation to an Army Private.

(The truth of the matter was that Wojtek actually liked to eat the cigarettes—he wouldn’t smoke them! He apparently also liked to eat dates and most of the time would drink water from a beer bottle). He also liked to ride in trucks alongside fellow soldiers—in the passenger seat at first as a cub but then in the backseat once he grew too big for the front.

In 1943, Wojtek—who was still a young cub, was adopted by the Polish Army* after his mother was shot and killed by a group of hunters. The bear cub followed his new Polish family all the way from Syria to Italy as they fought in the war. In order to be able to transport the bear, Wojtek had to be officially enlisted in the Polish Free Army. He was given a rank (Private) as well as a serial number and was allowed to travel to the Italian theatre of the war.

During the Battle of Monte Cassino, other Allied troops were shocked to see a literal bear carrying artillery shells and other crates full of ammunition. Wojtek stood about six feet tall on his hind legs, so it was quite a sight to behold! Wojtek did such a good job his company’s emblem became a depiction of him carrying a shell. For his bravery in the battle, Wojtek was promoted to the rank of Corporal.

After the war, Wojtek lived in Scotland with his other Polish soldiers/friends for a time before being moved to the Edinburgh Zoo, where he lived for the rest of his life. The soldiers did not want him to return to Poland, as they were worried the Communist forces now in control of their country would use him as a propaganda tool.

Several statues of Wojtek stand in Edinburgh, as well as in Kraków and Duns—another city in Scotland. Many of the Polish soldiers Wojtek fought with ended up settling in the UK after the war. Before the war, they had been held as political prisoners in the Soviet Union, and with Poland still being an occupied territory after the war, they couldn’t return home.

In 2024, author Alan Pollack, who had previously written a children’s book about Wojtek, announced he was also writing and producing a stage production of the bear’s story.

*According to Encyclopedia Britannica’s article on Wojtek, the Polish Army was able to adopt the bear cub after a local shepherd traded the bear to them in exchange for a Swiss Army Knife, some chocolate, and some canned beef. I’d say that was a fair trade!

Badges Earned:

Find a Grave Marked

Located In My Personal Library:

The Bear Who Went to War by Alan Pollack

Sources:

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cy4nd3n33yeo

https://www.britannica.com/animal/Wojtek-the-Bear

https://www.expatspoland.com/wojtek-the-bear/

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/152351288/wojtek

 

 

PS, Special thanks to my very Russian friend for suggesting Wojtek's story to me! He knows who he is 😉 haha

That Time My Fiancé and I Were Handfast

Let's start at the beginning--shall we?😂

 

When I was nineteen, I fell in love with the Scottish heritage I inherited from my Paternal Grandmother, who was a very proud descendant of the Graham Clan. Around the same time, I also fell in love with the Outlander books and TV show, which revolve around Scottish history and culture quite a bit!

As a history-focused, nineteen-year-old, single college girl, I did what any rationally minded individual would do--and bought a lifesize cardboard cutout of Jamie Fraser when he went on sale!

My First Boyfriend

I specifically chose the Revolutionary War-era Jamie because of my interest in that period of history as well (I am a member of DAR after all!). For those who don't know, the actor who plays Jamie (Sam Heughan) is six foot five, and yes we measured--the cardboard cutout IS life size. Anyways! The point of me even mentioning this is that I began to say that Cardboard Jaime was my first boyfriend--and that was that! Ha ha, the lonely historian is dating a cardboard cutout. You get the picture!

 

Flash forward three years--to when I was twenty-two, and I met my first actual, flesh and blood, living boyfriend (phrasing it like that sounds really weird but I don't know how else to phrase it either!). My actual first boyfriend turned out to be a six foot four, Danish/Hispanic hunk who--although he lacks the Scottish brogue accent, his voice is actually the first part of him I fell in love with. Coincidentally, we "met" three years ago today, on Snapchat! And after going back and forth for hours, exchanging messages and getting to know one another, we ended up on an over four hour long phone call. We met in person for the first time two days later, and two days after that we officially started dating!💚

(Also, random other comparison but the Outlander character's full name is James Alexander Malcolm Mackenzie Fraser, and my fiancé's name is almost as long! He's got two middle names AND a suffix--and yes we plan on passing the name down to our future first-born son because of the incredibly rich history and legacy behind the name).

My parents were both raised Christian (my dad Methodist and my mom in various churches, both non-denominational and other sects). When my brother and I were born, our parents chose to raise us outside of the church but with the mindset that if we ever wanted to attend a church of any kind we were more than welcome to.

As I grew up, I became fascinated with various Antiquity cultures (shocker I know) and eventually decided my own spiritual and religious beliefs were closer to the umbrella term of "Pagan." This is because, in my own PERSONAL OPINION (please don't get offended by what you're about to read), I personally believe it more plausible that there are multiple "gods" or deity-like beings or spirits, as opposed to one overall. This is because of my own historical research into the subject as well as my own personal experiences throughout my life--as well as my experiences with spiritual entities or "ghosts" as most refer to them.

My fiancé, on the other hand, was raised as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, better known as "Mormons" or "LDS" (though the church itself prefers to not use either and instead likes members to use the full Latter Day Saints). He also had some other Christian influence from various family members and friends in his upbringing.

I swear I'm going to get to a point here in a minute.

For many couples, a disagreement on religious ideology can spell the death of a relationship. For us, however, my fiancé and I were extremely upfront about our beliefs from the very first phone call we had with one another, and because of that, and because of how open we both are to learning about new cultural/religious experiences and whatnot, we have both grown together throughout the past three years. I have attended church with him on several occasions, and he helped me pin up various god and goddess posters throughout our house when we moved in together. We don't have to "make" anything work, because we are respectful of one another's beliefs and love each other for them.

 

The Engagement

As I mentioned, my fiancé and I have been in each other's lives for three years now. We've been talking about marriage and babies since, well, honestly day one. I have known I've wanted to be a mom since I was five years old and he also knew he wanted to get married and have a family one day.

(Also, in case you're wondering, my man is a sort-of advocate for social media anonymity and so I always make sure to cover his face before posting any photos. Usually I use a cutesy emoji but for this specific post I thought Jamie's face was more appropriate, Ha!)

Last Autumn, we found out my fiancé's littlest brother was planning to leave on a mission for the Latter Day Saints church. For those unaware, missions usually last between eighteen months and two years, and my future brother-in-law planned on being gone for two years.

When my fiancé and I got engaged in October of 2024, we agreed we would wait for our actual wedding until his brother came home and could come to our wedding. Neither of us are in a rush to sign a piece of paper, and we both already spiritually feel as though we are married. We've been living together for over a year, and in that time we've seen and been through plenty of ups and downs that come with being in a serious, committed relationship.

Alright, now we're finally getting to the good part of the story!

 

The ceremony

A few weeks ago we were discussing the fact that we had done some church-related functions with my fiancé's family in the lead up to his brother leaving on his mission. My mom then asked me if we had any plans to do anything special for our three-year anniversary, which also happens to coincide right around the time one of my fiancé's cousins is getting Sealed in the Temple.

(For those unaware, the specific marriage ritual/ceremony celebrated within the Latter Day Saint church is called a Sealing).

Somehow this conversation switched to the idea of a Handfasting Ceremony. My fiancé had never heard of such a thing before, so I was all too happy to fill him in on the details.

A Handfasting ceremony is a traditional wedding ceremony that, according to some estimates and sources, dates back as far as 7,000 BCE. I'll post multiple links/sources below, but basically it allows a couple to get married in a simple, quick, way without any church, witness, or other involvement.

Depending on the time period in history, a Handfasting could either be seen as an actual marriage or a sort-of engagement ceremony. According to some, a traditional Handfasting lasted a year and a day, and if at the end of that time period the couple decided they no longer wanted to be together, they could part ways as easily as someone moving out and moving on.

Some sources state the bride would have to fall pregnant in that time in order to "seal the deal" but that wasn't the case for them all. Another few sources also stated that a Handfasting, for an engagement, would ensure that if the bride did fall pregnant within that year time span, the child would technically be born "in wedlock," so long as the couple did eventually have a more formal wedding.

Its important to remember that Handfasting, or similar ceremonies with other names, have existed across multiple cultures around the world for thousands of years, from Scotland to China and various places in between. To claim it is purely a Celtic ritual is not entirely true--while the term "Handfasting" itself can be tied to Celtic history, the ceremony itself did not only exist among the Celts.

And if that's not confusing enough, a lot of the "History" about Handfasting you find in various wedding blogs online isn't actually true either--instead, a lot of the information actually stems from the author Sir Walter Scott (whom I personally believe spent his life dressing up Scottish folklore in order to drive tourists to the country!).

One particular passage stuck out to me as I was doing a bit of research for this post. From the article "Handfasting--The True Story" (article linked below):

My friend and colleague Tom Morton lives in the Shetland Isles and on our new Substack, he’s just shared another ‘origin story’ that has a ring of truth about it. As he says, “The word ‘handfesta’ in Old Norse means ‘to strike a bargain by holding hands’ and holding hands seems to me a perfectly reasonable expression of affection, even for Scots.”

The best part of the idea is that, for hundreds of years, a Handfasting ceremony was recognized as a completely legal way to get married in Scotland. This changed for a few decades after the government decided to get more involved in marriages, but as of 2025 a Handfasting is once again legal (with several caveats of course).

Because the tradition dates back so far, and crosses so many cultures, there is no one set of rules or guidelines a Handfasting has to follow. You can use a random piece of string you have laying around the house (like my fiancé and I did since we forgot to actually figure out anything else beforehand), or you can go all out and buy fancy Tartan ribbons (which is a booming business apparently).

All you have to do to complete the ritual is have that piece of rope or ribbon tied around the hands of the betrothed couple. Usually a few words are said, but that's basically it. This is where the phrase "Tying the Knot" is believed to come from in relation to weddings.

For some Handfastings, you don't even have to have a witness present! Take one of the most famous fictional examples--which occurs in the fourth Outlander book Drums of Autumn, when Roger and Brianna are Handfast in front of a roaring fire while staying at an inn, soon after they are reunited in the 18th Century.

(I won't add more details than that in case its a spoiler for any potential fans!)

Our Ceremony

For my fiancé and I's specific ceremony, we had our very close (and half-Jewish friend who agrees with us on the "live and let live" religious belief system) act as our officiant. We plan on having him perform the ceremony at our actual wedding in two years as well!

My Outfit

My day job, when I'm not busy ranting about all things history, is working in my family's flower shop. The traditional flower of Scotland is the Thistle, and while we cannot easily get the Scottish Thistle out here in the Sonoran Desert, I did the next best thing by incorporating many of the thistle we can get in my flower crown that I made by hand just for the evening's events.

As I previously mentioned, I am descended from the Graham Clan in Scotland, which is a lowland clan (so don't picture me in full Highland-gear, speaking Gaelic and gathering fresh Heather or peat from the bogs). For those curious if there is any Outlander connection, unfortunately (at least in my OPINION) the Graham clan chose to side with the English crown against the Jacobites in the Rising of '45.

Today, every Scottish Clan has an official tartan to go along with it, which is a specific pattern and set of colors. Historically speaking, there were no specific tartans for specific clans. This is a fairly modern invention, starting in the 1800s or so, and was another way to garner interest in Scottish culture and also raise money for the clans and country by having visitors buy a tartan in their favorite clans colors.

Before the clans picked their own tartans, the previous generations of Scots would usually have kilts and tartan patterns in all different colors and styles, usually created with the local plant and animal dyes from around their lands. This is why some clans had different colors than others, even before the official clan colors were decided upon.

The Graham Tartan is a beautiful mix of dark blue, dark green, and black. I have always wanted a real kilt in my clan's colors, but they are (understandably) very expensive. So for this occasion, I chose a much more cost-effective skirt I found on Amazon.

(And it has pockets!! So I mean come on, how could I not buy it?)

The man himself

I made my fiancé a boutonniere out of all the various flowers my flower crown was made of to match.

For our vows, we decided to take inspiration from some other vows we had found online and mashed some various options together.

We did take a video of the whole thing to save for our kids and grandkids one day, but I'm obviously not going to post it here, because as easy as it was to superimpose Jamie's face in Microsoft Paint over my fiancé's face, I do not have the time or patience to do that with a five minute long video!

So anyways, yeah, I guess I'm married now? Just kidding, *legally speaking* we are still only engaged, but we specifically did our Handfast two years and two days before we plan our actual wedding...that way we can do this all over again next year if we feel like it!

I hope you enjoyed my rambling and learned a little bit about Handfasting along the way. If you want to learn more about the ritual, or some of the other topics relating to Scottish history and culture I mentioned, I'm including some links below. Thanks for reading! Until next time, I am your Friendly Exasperated Historian, Zoë

Sources:

Handfasting:

How we Got Our Vows

From Brides.com

Handfasting--The True Story

The History of Handfasting

Handfasting--A History

 

Tartans and Kilts:

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15) Togo

Courtesy of Qrill Paws

“I resented the statue to Balto, for if any dog deserved special mention, it was Togo.” -Leonhard Seppala, Togo’s Owner

15: Togo

Helped Deliver Medicine to Children in Nome, Alaska

Born: October 1913, Alaska, United States of America

Died: 5 December 1929, Poland Spring, Maine, United States of America

In 1925, the small town of Nome, Alaska was hit with a massive diphtheria outbreak. Only 1,300 people lived in the town to begin with, but diphtheria threatened to seriously kill or harm several thousand more in the surrounding area. Between November 1924 and July 1925, the one seaport in town was blocked by massive sheets of ice, meaning the only way to get supplies into the town was via the Iditarod Trail—a 938-mile overland trek.

Just before winter set in, the only doctor in town noticed that his diphtheria antitoxin had expired. He acted quickly and ordered more, but the antitoxin did not arrive before the port closed for the winter. Sure enough, several children soon began to fall ill, and four died before the doctor realized he had a diphtheria outbreak.

If this story is beginning to sound familiar, its because you may have heard it because of Balto, a very famous sled dog that helped bring medicine and supplies to the people of Nome. And while Balto’s story is very famous, another dog that also helped complete the trek named Togo is decidedly less famous.

Togo was a Siberian Husky who led a team of dogs across the most dangerous part of the journey that winter. As a puppy, Togo developed a painful throat condition that weakened him. His owner tried to get rid of Togo by adopting him out to another family, but Togo refused to be parted with his original owner. He went so far as to jump out of a window and run back to his person after the adoption was completed. Even though he was still only a few months old, Togo began excitedly following alongside working sled teams. His owner felt he had no other choice but to harness Togo to the team—at only eight months old! That day, Togo reportedly ran seventy-five miles with his team, an unheard-of sum for such a little, untrained, dog. While Togo held several different positions on sled teams, he eventually was placed in the lead position.

Over the next few years, Togo helped his owner and team win the All-Alaska sled dog sweepstakes in 1915, 1916, and 1917. He became known throughout the state for being one of, if not the hardest working sled dog.

When Togo helped the people of Nome, he was twelve years old. His leg of the journey was 261 miles (for comparison, Balto’s team ran between fifty-three or fifty-five miles depending on the source). Balto is usually given the accolades because it was his team that completed the final leg of the journey to deliver the medicine to the people of Nome.

In all, twenty different teams of around 500 sled dogs completed the 674-mile journey in five and a half days, saving thousands of lives in the process. All throughout, the daily temperature reached around -30 degrees Fahrenheit (or about -34 Celsius)!

According to the American Kennel Club (article linked below) on one particularly treacherous part of the journey:

“The team became stranded on an ice floe. The quick-thinking Seppala tied a lead to Togo, his only hope, and tossed the dog across five feet of water. Togo attempted to pull the floe supporting the sled, but the line snapped. Amazingly, the once-in-a-lifetime lead dog had the wherewithal to snatch the line from the water, roll it around his shoulders like a harness, and eventually pull his team to safety.”

Togo retired to Maine and was euthanized at the age of sixteen. His owner had his skin mounted and put on display in Vermont, but today Togo’s skin resides at the Iditarod Trail Sled Dog Race Headquarters Museum in Wasilla, Alaska after Alaskan students successfully campaigned to have Togo returned to their great state. Togo’s skeleton is held in the collection of the Peabody Museum of Natural History at Yale University.

In 2019, Disney (who had previously made a movie about Balto) released a film called Togo on their streaming platform, Disney+, based on the real-life story. The dog who portrayed Togo in the film, Diesel, is a Siberian Husky and descendant of Togo himself.

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American Spirit Magazine Article “Dogged Determination” by Jeff Walter (May/June 2024 Edition)

Sources:

https://www.nps.gov/people/togo.htm

https://www.akc.org/expert-advice/news/togo-siberian-husky-sled-dog-hero-of-1925/

https://www.adn.com/alaska-life/2020/03/02/togo-was-the-true-hero-dog-of-the-serum-run-its-about-time-he-got-his-due/

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/28979809/togo-seppala

14) Trakr

My Hero Project

14: Trakr

Pulled the Last Survivor Out of the World Trade Center After the 9/11 Terror Attacks

Born: c.1994 Prague, Czech Republic

Died: April 2009, Los Angeles, California, USA

Trakr was a German Shepherd living in Canada in 2001. He had been trained as a police K9 dog in Halifax, and earlier on in his career Trakr had been able to recover $1 million in stolen goods and was known for being able to track missing people. He was technically retired from the police department as of September 2001 according to one source.

On 11 September 2001, Nova Scotia police Sergeant James Symington heard the news of the terror attacks on New York City, Pennsylvania, and Washington DC. Sergeant Symington was Trakr’s handler, and as soon as he heard the news, he loaded Trakr into a van and they drove fourteen or fifteen hours (sources differ on the exact length of time) to Ground Zero, the site of the attacks in New York City.

Upon arrival, Sergeant Symington and Trakr joined other first responders, searching rubble from the north tower. In the early morning hours of September 12th, Trakr alerted to his handler that he had discovered a survivor buried beneath the rubble.

Once they pulled her out, the responders discovered the woman was named Genelle Guzman. She was thirty years old and had been working on the 64th floor of the north tower when the first plane struck. Genelle had made her way all the way to the thirteenth floor before the tower collapsed around her.

When she woke up the next morning, she found herself buried alive in between slabs of broken concrete. If not for Trakr’s training and keen senses, she would have died. Genelle was the last survivor pulled form the wreckage of the towers. Almost 3,000 other innocent people died between the towers, the planes, and the Pentagon attack in Washington DC.

Sadly, Trakr did not escape from the scene unscathed. Soon after finding Genelle Guzman, Trakr collapsed from smoke inhalation, burns, and sheer exhaustion. He was treated by local veterinarians before being allowed to return to Canada.

As time progressed, Trakr began to show signs of a degenerative neurological disorder, which veterinarians believed were caused by his work at Ground Zero; just like thousands of human aid workers who became incredibly sick—or even died—from the toxic fumes and chemicals unleashed by the wreckage.

In 2005, Sergeant Symington (and Trakr) left Canada for sunny Los Angeles. Symington began the Team Trakr Foundation soon after to train and deploy K9 and search-and-rescue dog teams around the world.

Trakr passed away at the age of sixteen in 2009. Before he passed, Sergent Symington had submitted Trakr’s DNA to a California-based biotech company that specialized in cloning. Trakr was selected for the program, and five cloned Trakr puppies were the result! Born in June of 2009 and trained by Symington himself, the puppies were named Déjà vu, Trustt, Valor, Prodigy, and Solace.

Sadly, parts of Trakr’s story were not without controversy. Some believe that cloning of any kind is wrong or immoral, and were upset that Sergeant Symington agreed to allow Trakr to be cloned. Other controversies sprung up from the fact that Sergeant Symington did not receive permission from his bosses with the Nova Scotia police before racing to Ground Zero. He was on leave from his job at the time, and afterward the story created a legal snafu that took years to sort out.

Despite the controversies, at the end of the day all that mattered was that Trakr went above and beyond the call of duty every day, but especially on the days immediately after September 11th. Today, his legacy lives on through the work of his former handler and the cloned versions of him.

Sources:

https://spyscape.com/article/how-hero-dog-trakr-found-the-last-9-11-human-survivor

https://content.time.com/time/specials/packages/article/0,28804,2059858_2059863_2060232,00.html

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trakr

https://www.linkedin.com/in/james-symington-67044a34/

13) Hachiko

Courtesy of Wikipedia

13: Hachikō

Dog Remembered for His Loyalty to His Owner, Even After the Owner Passed Away

Born: 10 November 1923, Odate City, Akita Prefecture, Japan

Died: 8 March 1935, Shibuya-ku, Tokyo, Japan

Also Known As: Hachi

Hachikō is arguably the most-famous dog in Japanese history. His story has been immortalized in several movies, books, and he has two bronze statues dedicated to him—one at Shibuya Train Station in Tokyo and the other at Woonsocket Depot Square in Rhode Island, USA. The Hollywood movie about him starred Richard Gere and was called “Hachiko—A Dog’s Tale.” The reason why the second statue is in Rhode Island is because that is where the Richard Gere film was made.

Hachikō was born on a small farm in Akita Prefecture to a set of purebred Akita breeding parents. He was purchased for ¥30 soon after he was born by a professor named Hidesaburō Ueno, who brought Hachikō with him back to Tokyo, where he lived and worked.

The train journey home took around twenty hours, and at first the professor was worried that his new puppy had died during the trip. Hachikō wasn’t dead, but he was very weak. Over the next six months, his new owners slowly nursed him back to health until he was big and strong.

Soon after bringing him home, Hachikō began to follow the professor to the train station to see him off to work every morning. Hachikō also learned to tell the time, and would meet the professor at the station every evening to walk him home.

Sadly, a little over a year later, Hachikō found himself waiting at the train station for his owner at the end of the work day. However, his owner never showed. Unbeknownst to Hachikō, the professor had suffered a cerebral hemorrhage while at work and passed away at only fifty-three years old.

Hachikō began to live with a local farming family instead. Despite having a new family, Hachikō never forgot his first owner, and every afternoon for almost a decade he would go to the train station at precisely the right time, waiting for the professor to come back.

Not all of the other staff and visitors in the train station were happy to see the habitually returning dog. His official biographer recounts that Hachikō was beaten and abused by several people, who thought he was a nuisance and taking up space in the busy station.

That all changed in 1932, when a major Japanese newspaper published Hachikō’s story. Overnight, the loyal dog became an instant celebrity. People would travel from all over Japan to visit Hachikō and give him treats.

Hachikō continued to visit the station every day for nine years, nine months, and fifteen days after the death of Professor Ueno. He only stopped when Hachikō himself passed away at the age of eleven.

After his death, the people of Japan had his fur stuffed and put on display in the National Museum of Nature and Science in Tokyo, where visitors from all over the world can continue to see him and thank him for his devotion to his owner.

As for the rest of Hachikō…well, according to Nerd Nomads (article linked below), his liver, heart, and lungs are on display alongside his autopsy report in a small museum on the University of Tokyo’s grounds, alongside a memorial to Hachikō and Professor Ueno.

The rest of Hachikō’s remains were cremated and buried alongside Professor Ueno.

Badges Earned:

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Sources:

https://nerdnomads.com/hachiko_the_dog

https://www.denverartmuseum.org/en/edu/book-recommendation/hachiko-true-story-loyal-dog

https://www.bokksu.com/blogs/news/hachiko-the-dog

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/5951810/hachikō-ueno

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