Ah yes, my second trip to New York City.
I have nothing against the people who live there, but I will be very upfront and honest, I do not like New York City. I didn't like it the first time and I liked it even less this time around. There are too many people everywhere and, honestly, in Manhattan specifically there's not much history I'm interested in--I've definitely seen all I need to and don't plan on ever going back.
With that said, let's start the tour!
One of our stops was St. Patrick's Cathedral, right in the middle of Manhattan. While the inside of the building is equally impressive, it still feels wrong to me to wander around and take photos and videos inside a place of worship, so you can survive with this photo of the outside instead.
According to the church's website, the cathedral was built between 1858 and 1879, funded in part by poor immigrants, as well as the wealthier citizens of the city. In 1866, the first church known as St. Patrick's in the city was destroyed by a fire, so many describe the cathedral that exists today as the second St. Patrick's church in New York City. Restoration work was undertaken on the inside and out of the building in the 1970s, to celebrate the church's 100th birthday.
If you tour the inside of the church, you will see dozens of statues, beautiful pieces of stained glass, and many other ornate decorations. One thing my group commented on (since none of us are Catholic), is we wish the stained glass had inscriptions on them to let the public know which Biblical scene is taking place in them. They do all say on them who donated the pieces though, so that's cool!
The Cathedral is also still a practicing church, with active mass times and other services taking place inside. When we visited, they had big banners inside advertising the Christian prayer app "Hallow," which my fiancé had never heard of. At first he was dismayed by the thought of a cathedral having an app of all things, but once I explained it was advertising he was...slightly less dismayed.
The Staten Island Ferry is a free ferry service that takes tourists and locals alike from Manhattan to Staten Island and back, and while it does so it gives some pretty incredible views of Manhattan's famous skyline, the Statue of Liberty, and the Brooklyn Bridge. According to the Ferry's website, they transport around 22 million people every year, which is crazy!
I was most excited to see the Brooklyn Bridge because it meant I could take a photo to fan girl about the early 2000s film "Kate and Leopold." Sadly no one else in my group had any idea what I was talking about!
Ground Zero at the World Trade Center is one of the saddest places you can visit, not just in New York, but anywhere in the US.
I don't know how anyone reading this doesn't know about the 9/11 Tragedy, but in case you don't, here is a brief summary.
On September 11th, 2001, four planes were hijacked and used, or were attempted to use, as a way to commit terror attacks on US Soil. Two of the planes struck One World Trade Center Tower One and Tower Two. A third plane struck the Pentagon, and a fourth was crashed in a small field in Pennsylvania by the heroic passengers on board, who made the choice to sacrifice themselves and prevent further lives being lost rather than let the plane strike whatever its intended target was. To this day, no one knows what the fourth target was.
When the planes struck in New York, first responders responded, well, immediately. Unfortunately for those at work in the towers, if you were on a floor above where the planes struck you had two options: die in the tower, or die by jumping to death outside of the building, as all the stairs and elevators were blocked by flames. For those lucky enough to be beneath where the planes struck, some were able to escape thanks to the help of brave volunteers and first responders.
Over two thousand people died that day. What most people don't know, is that another, much smaller tower in the World Trade Center complex also fell that day, after being struck and damaged by debris from the attack.
Today, the ground where Tower One and Tower Two stood are large, recessed, reflecting pools. Around the edges of the pool are the names of everyone who died, be it civilians or first responders, that day--and also those that died in the bombing that took place at the World Trade Center several years before. The day I visited in June 2025, one of the reflecting pools was undergoing maintenance and was dry, but the other pool was still fully operational.
Today, the 9/11 memorial fund also ensures that, on the birthday of anyone who died, a white rose is placed by their name on the memorial plaque, helping to keep their memory alive for generations to come.
Right across the street from the One World plaza is a fire station for FDNY. On the side of the fire house is a poster, (in the photo I took shown above), with the name and photo of every fire fighter that perished that day. While we were there, we were able to point out Pete Davidson's father amongst the dozens of other first responders who gave the ultimate sacrifice that day. Sadly, all six firefighters who served from the Brooklyn 118 died that day, but are credited with saving over 200 lives.
What most people don't realize, is that the work to identify victims of 9/11 still isn't complete. The New York City Medical Examiner's Office is still working every day to identify more than 1,000 missing people, presumed dead because of where they were last known to be alive that day.
After the attacks, family members of the victims provided over 17,000 DNA samples in an effort to help locate their missing relatives. Those samples are still being used today. In the aftermath of the tragedy, almost two million tons of debris were searched by hand to find any trace of human remains. In 2006, over 700 small bone fragments were discovered on the roof of a building across the street from Ground Zero--later identified to be from victims of one of the planes. After this discovery, 18,000 tons of excavated material was also searched, leading to over a thousand more human remains, down to the microscopic level.
All of those tiny fragments, discovered from the day of the attacks all the way up to five years later, have been catalogued and kept safe. To date, over 21,000 individual pieces of human remains have been located--there were 2,573 victims in total that day. Of those, sixty percent of the victims were identified, with forty percent (or 1,103 people) still unaccounted for as of November 2024.
The problem lies in the DNA technology as it stands today. What happened at Ground Zero is a perfect storm for destroying DNA--everything from jet fuel to diesel fuel, bacteria, mold, various chemicals, insects, heat. Think of anything that might destroy DNA cells--whatever it was, the odds are it was present during the attacks or in the aftermath.
The remains present and still unidentified have been tested over and over again as technology advances, up to fifteen times in some cases, and the work will not end until every piece has been identified and returned home to that victim's family.
Around half of those families, however? They have informed the medical office that, if their loved one is found, they don't want to know. Those families have tried to put the past to rest, and knowing a piece of their loved one has been sitting in a lab for twenty-four years now is too much to bear. The other half of the families however, are waiting for news, hoping that every day will be that day. When remains are identified and the family is notified, they have the option of having the remains transferred to the funeral home of their choice, or they can stay at the medical examiner's office, which is located within the museum complex.
I obviously didn't get to visit the medical examiner's office, but I learned about the recovery efforts a few years ago and have always wanted to find time to highlight the work the medical examiner is still doing to help the families affected by this horrific tragedy.
The business name Cunard Line doesn't mean as much to most people today as it did one hundred years ago.
Before the invention of airplanes, and later planes big enough to carry passengers across the world, people would have to travel by oceanliner.
The very word oceanliner has lost meaning in the modern landscape. Today, if you asked a random selection of people on the street what the difference is between an oceanliner and a cruise ship is, the response you would receive is probably first, "What's an oceanliner?" and second, "Isn't that just a cruise ship?"
(For those curious, an oceanliner is a ship built specifically for the purpose of ferrying passengers back and forth across oceans--ships like Titanic, Olympic, Queen Mary, and so on), while a cruise ship is a vessel meant specifically to take people on vacations and for pleasure. It doesn't seem like that big of a difference today but I promise it is.
Anyways! I digress--unfortunately I was not able to physically stop at Cunard's Pier 54 while in New York City (part of the famed Chelsea Piers), but we did pass it on a bus tour and our guide casually mentioned, "By the way, that's the pier that Carpathia unloaded Titanic's passengers on, and three years later that Lusitania took off from on her fatal voyage."
Other than my fiancé and I, nobody else in our group seemed phased by the casualness of our guide's comments. Meanwhile I'm sitting in the back of the bus, openly gaping and scrambling to get this photo!
Returning visitors to this site, and those who know me in person, know how much I am personally invested in the story of Titanic. I am also sure everyone knows the Titanic story by now as well, but once again, for those who don't, I'll give a quick summary.
In April of 1912, The White Star Line, one of the largest oceanliner companies in the world, launched their latest, most fabulous, and technically largest ship in the world, RMS Titanic. RMS stands for Royal Mail Ship--and one of Titanic's primary duties was to carry bags and bags of mail from the UK to the US and back.
Also happening at the time was a massive coal strike. Oceanliners of the day relied on coal in order to power their steam engines. With not enough coal to go around, and Titanic underbooked for her maiden voyage, White Star Line made the decision to move what coal they did have from other ships, onto the Titanic in order to power her first trip across the sea. At the same time, White Star Line "upgraded" numerous passengers set to sail on those other vessels that had just been stripped of their coal supplies.
On the night of April 14th, 1912, Titanic was steaming across an ice cold Atlantic ocean. Her captain, J Edward Smith, had been warned numerous times of ice flows in the area, but elected to ignore the warnings and continued to speed on--at least one other ship in the area, the Californian, had elected to shut down her engines and wait for daylight out of an abundance of caution.
At around 11 PM, disaster struck. In the blackness of night, Titanic's two lookouts spotted an iceberg "Dead Ahead." They immediately rang down to the bridge to warn of the danger. The crew (which did not include Captain Smith, as he had already gone to bed for the night), made the decision to try to steer the ship out of the way of the iceberg.
(Ironically, studies have now proven that had the Titanic hit the iceberg head on, she would have sustained severe structural damage, but she would not have sunk. To watch a video on that analysis and to support one of my favorite YouTube channels click here.)
Within minutes of the lookout spotting the iceberg, Titanic would graze the berg on her starboard side, ripping open five of her watertight compartments. Had only four been breached, she also might not have sunk. Another quick fact! Most people think the iceberg ripped open one giant gash that allowed water to enter the ship--when in actuality it was a series of punctures ranging from small to large. Can you tell I'm a Titanic nerd?
On the night of the 14th, Titanic had around 2,200 souls on board (the approximate number can never be known for certain). Three hours after the iceberg struck the ship, Titanic would snap in half from the sheer weight of the water rushing into the bow section, and within minutes would sink under the waves, just after 2 AM on the 15th. The Californian, and one other mystery ship, were nearby--but neither had wireless operators awake and able to receive Titanic's distress signals. The closest ship who did hear the distress signals was Cunard Line's Carpathia, captained by Arthur Rostron.
Captain Rostron had made full steam ahead, or as close to it as he could manage while keeping his own crew and passengers safe through the dangerous ice flows, and arrived at the scene on the morning of the 15th. He had believed that when he arrived, Titanic would still be afloat but heavily damaged, and that he would be assisting passengers move to his ship to continue the trip to New York.
Instead, what he found was very different. As I mentioned, Titanic was long gone. Not only that, but over 1,500 of her passengers and crew had also perished. Captain Rostron's Carpathia arrived in the midst of Titanic's lifeboats, with 705 survivors freezing inside them.
Carpathia had been heading in the opposite direction, taking her passengers and cargo to Italy, but after rescuing the Titanic survivors, they changed course and headed to New York as quickly as possible. Carpathia was not equipped to hold so many people, but the passengers and crew did everything possible to help the survivors--including sharing food, clothes, and in some cases even giving up their own cabins.
On April 18th, Carpathia steamed into New York, arriving at the very pier I photographed above, delivering all of the Titanic survivors to the place they had headed out for only a few days before, but their lives had changed forever. 40,000 people waited at the pier to meet them, everyone from EMS workers to journalists, to anxious family members praying that their loved ones would walk down the gangplank.
Just over three years later, in May 1915, the Cunard liner Lusitania--noted for its considerable speed and luxury, was leaving from the same pier in New York that Carpathia had delivered Titanic's survivors in April 1912.
By May 1915, World War I was in full swing in Europe, and the German government was operating U-Boats in the water around the United Kingdom. The Lusitania was leaving New York to head for Ireland, knowing full well that they were heading into dangerous waters. The passengers, some of whom were some of society's most wealthy, and some of whom were immigrants returning to Europe because of the war, traveled knowing full well of the danger. There were 1,959 souls on board.
Unfortunately for those on board Lusitania, their captain, William Thomas Turner, elected to ignore the British Admiralty's warnings of the danger. He was told to be especially careful in the water around Ireland and also to travel across the ocean in a zigzag pattern--which would slow them down but also make it harder for the U-Boats to torpedo them. Apparently Captain Turner decided he knew better than the Admiralty and did neither of the recommendations.
Everything was going fine until May 7th. On that morning, the Lusitania was within sight of the Irish coast when disaster struck. A torpedo hit the Lusitania, and twenty minutes later she sunk beneath the waves, taking 1,198 souls with her.
Two disasters, separated by three years and costing the lives of around 3,400 people, connected by a simple pier in New York City. All of that hit me hard as I looked at the rusty metal sign--and then a few seconds later, it was out of sight as we continued to drive on to our next stop.
While doing research for this section of the blog, I found an article all about the "Curse of Pier 54" and how, while Lusitania and Titanic were the most well known disasters linked to the pier, they were not the only ones. Evidently Lusitania's sister ship Mauretania stuck the pier on two separate occasions, in 1907 and 1925. Then in 1932, a fire broke out causing devastating results:
"More than 700 firemen became involved in fighting the flames, battling for hours until it became clear that the US$2-million structure was doomed. More than US$100,000 worth of cargo turned to ash, but there was a higher cost to bear. Not all attending firemen survived, dozens were injured and nearby buildings were destroyed. As the sun set that day, Pier 54’s flaring wreckage collapsed into the Hudson River, having claimed further souls."
(From "Pier 54, Cunard's Cursed New York Base" article linked below)
The pier's building was reconstructed following the fire, opening in July 1933. In 1991, with the collapse of the oceanliner industry, the building was leveled--leaving a blank concrete slate behind. Then in 2015, what was left of the pier was obliterated to make way for an art installation. Today, all that remains is the rusty steel sign I was able to photograph from my tour bus.
Okay let's switch to a lighter topic, shall we?
I don't consider myself a "Theatre Kid" by any means, but there are definitely a few musicals that I have always wanted to see. Earlier this year, I got to see "Jersey Boys" at the Phoenix Theatre in Arizona, which was AMAZING, and while in New York I got to see "Book of Mormon" at the Eugene O'Neill Theatre.
For those who don't know, "Book of Mormon" is a satirical take on the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints (better known as "Mormons" by non-church members). I am not LDS myself, but growing up a majority of my friends and parts of my extended family were/are, and now a lot of my future family-in-law are also practicing members of the church. I knew going into it that the play "Book of Mormon" is largely seen as offensive to members of the church, but many of my non-member friends who had seen it told me its amazing and that I had to see it one day.
Then I looked up the opening number for the musical, which was performed at the Tony awards after "Book of Mormon" debuted on Broadway (and can be viewed by clicking here). It is SO SPOT ON and hilarious, so I was immediately hooked.
Now that I have seen the entire musical, I am even more stoked. I genuinely loved the entire show from start to finish. I went with my fiancé, his brothers, and his grandma, and they were--let's say less enthused by parts of the show, but I think they still liked it for the most part. They didn't outright say they hated it anyway.
To summarize the basic plot, for those who haven't seen anything about the show is pretty simple. Two missionaries for the church, Elder Price and Elder Cunningham, are called to serve in a war torn village in Uganda. Elder Price feels betrayed by this because he had prayed time and again and thought he would be sent to his favorite place in the world--Orlando, Florida. His companion, Elder Cunningham, is a bit of an idiot and social outcast, who has never actually read the Book of Mormon himself and therefore doesn't know how to proselytize properly.
I don't want to give away too much, but let's just say the musical number "Spooky Mormon Hell Dream" is absolutely hilarious and my fiancé and his brothers all agreed the song "Turn it Off" is spot on to how they were raised in the church.
If you're a Pagan heathen like me, or are just interested in seeing a musical that pokes fun while still staying (mostly) accurate to the LDS doctrine, I highly recommend watching "Book of Mormon"!
PS, when I looked up the musical online to get a bit more information, I found out the theatre I watched it in was actually where "Book of Mormon" first debuted in 2011! The musical received nine Tony awards and has made more than $1 Billion since its debut.
According to Encyclopedia Britannica, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints themselves had an interesting response to the popularity of the show. Rather than protesting or denouncing the musical, instead the church bought ad space in the official playbook and had tag lines printed on advertisements that said things like "The book is always better" or "You've seen the play, now read the book."
I mean, that's one way to do it I guess, haha!
So yeah, that about sums up my trip to New York City. I took this Fight Club sewer grate photo after having dinner in Little Italy because I thought it was funny!
As I said, I've never been the biggest fan of New York, and I'll probably never go back, but I'm glad I got to experience "Book of Mormon" on Broadway and that I was able to do a deep dive into Pier 54. It wasn't all bad!
I hope you enjoyed my random ramblings on random New York topics. There's still more to come from my trip around the world, so keep checking back. I've still got to tell you all about my experiences in Denmark and Japan!
Thank you New York, and Goodnight!
Sources:
St. Patrick's Cathedral
https://saintpatrickscathedral.org/history-heritage
https://saintpatrickscathedral.org/historical-timeline
Staten Island Ferry
9/11 Memorial and Museum
https://allthatsinteresting.com/scott-davidson
Cunard Pier Sources
https://americanhistory.si.edu/
https://www.britannica.com/topic/Titanic
https://www.britannica.com/topic/Lusitania-British-ship
https://www.worldofcruising.co.uk/editors-corner/pier-54-cunard-new-york-history
"Book of Mormon" Source

